I'm a male dom looking to meet people and build dom/sub dynamics with them. I'm very into bondage, sadism and ***.
Outside of kink, I'm an artsy guy who's really into pubs, the cinema and music. I have my own house, a car and love to travel.
Spend a lot of time moving between Stoke-on-Trent (where I live), Walsall (where my family is) and Birmingham/Manchester (where my friends are).
The difference between BDSM and *** is consent. You have to want to go through everything and have the right to say no at all times. If he doesn't respect that, it's *** and you should probably get out.
I mean, I'm a guy and I'd prefer a LTR with someone local because it's easier to organise dates when you're around the corner than it is if you're in different counties (and this is from someone whose relationships have mostly been long distance). It's not a gendered thing.