I'm a 36 year-old cisgender male looking for a cisgendered female. I am very new to the community, but have had an interest in the BDSM lifestyle since I was around 13-14.
Never being in more than vanilla relationships, I haven't had much freedom in experimenting. I know mainly what I want, but also want to experience new things.
No *** or feces.
Getting stuck in another abusive relationship where I am terrified to be who I am because it would be used against me. Again.
On the flip side, being too afraid to show my true self in a relationship because it could be used against me, and/or she would leave out of disgust. A horrifically viscious Read more… circle of self-fulfilling prophesy and distrust.