I got hooked on to this lifestyle when I was 16. Every since then I have been researching and learning about the BDSM/kink community. Power exchange relationships really intrigue me. I know a quite a bit about them including how they work, and the basics of what's expected of them. I already have a detailed list of all of the kinks I have, and all of the ones I'm interested in.
One thing that really turns me off and gives me the ick is someone whose obsessed to train me since I have no experience, and no "bad habits" because of that. I don't want the excitement of having me as a submissive be based off of my little experience. I am more than what I have not had the ability to learn yet.
I am a Brat, and a Little. I can act childish at times, although I am very much a mature and responsible adult. As a brat, I am less of the do things just to get my way type, and more of the bratting to have fun and earn some fun times with my Daddy/Dominant. That being said, I am a submissive and would like to take part in the lifestyle. I’m not just here to fuck around, I want to submit to the right person.
I have a big personality. I am loud, bubbly, and have an obnoxious laugh. I know what I want, the type of person I want, and how I'd like to be approached. In other words, I know what I want and I know the questions I need to ask in order to make sure I receive what I want in the way I know I need it.
I will not respond to lewd or inappropriate messages as I am a person. I would like a courteous message, a pleasant conversation, and then we can see where it goes.
Y’all… I just want to be babied in the streets and smacked around in the sheets… is that too much to ask for?!?!
, , any permanent mental/physical harm, children, anything illegal
Hey, I’m in the exact same position as you. There are going to be guys out there who will go try to take advantage of you because they know your inexperienced and you don’t know what to expect. I had a dom just tell me this:
You are a sub, but not *their* sub.
You are a slave, but not *their* Read more… slave.
They are a dom, but not *your* dom.
They can not tell you what to do unless you let them. And I wouldn’t let them until you’ve built a bind with that person and respect them. You do not have to respect them, and you don’t have to message any of them back. I have looked at so many profiles that have said, “I don’t like being ignored” and I can tell you that it’s not your job to please them unless you want it to be.
If they are truly interest in you and not just your virginity for some kind of virgin fetish they will take the time to get to know you. I am talking to *the* sweetest guy right now and not only is he focused on me and my interests, he hasn’t tried pushing me into bdsm related topics. If you want something long term and lasting I would go for somebody who doesn’t just message you saying he wants to teach you how to take a cock up your ass. n
There will be plenty of people messaging you from all over. Since I started on this website about (?) a year ago I have had a couple people message me every day. There will be plenty of opportunities. Plus, doms will love you because you haven’t been trained yet so they get the honor of training you to be exactly as they please.
You’ll get there!!
P.S. I made a forum post called “Advice” not too long ago which is where I got all of this advice from. It was really helpful and I think it will help you too. Btw, keep asking questions. It helps
Thank you all, I really do appreciate it. From what I’m gathering from all of you, it seems to me that this guy is acting like a dom just so he can order me to send him nudes. I will bring all of this with me into any future endeavors I decide to partake in. Thank you so much!!