About me
I’m looking for:
- Friends
- Kinky Dates
- LTR (relationship)
- Events & Places
- NSA (no strings...)
- Swingers
- BDSM Lovers
Description
Kind but firm and driven man new to South West and looking to connect for regular meets and sharing a d/s dynamic. Naturally confident/ dominant and looking for real life meets for any level of relationship from casual friends to LTR.
I have a range of experience in bdsm dynamics spanning over 25 years but would still very much identify as learning the art of domination. A huge aspect of that is the understanding of the great gift that is someone's submission and the responsibility of the dom to empathise, nurture, plan, take responsibility, and provide care and sanctuary. All balanced with the structure, rigidity and sadistic basis of such dynamics.
My dom style is mischievously cruel as opposed to rough. I revel in the psychological aspects of servitude, ness, , and the willful yielding of total control to another. Don't get me wrong I can hand out harrowing punishments when called upon but it is not the *** aspect of bdsm which primarily motivates me.
Limits
, , non-consent, underage
My kinks & fetishes
My places
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I have a range of experience in bdsm dynamics spanning over 25 Read more… years but would still very much identify as learning the art of domination. A huge aspect of that is the understanding of the great gift that is someone's submission and the responsibility of the dom to empathise, nurture, plan, take responsibility, and provide care and sanctuary. All balanced with the structure, rigidity and sadistic basis of such dynamics.
My dom style is mischievously cruel as opposed to rough. I revel in the psychological aspects of servitude, ness, , and the willful yielding of total control to another. Don't get me wrong I can hand out harrowing punishments when called upon but it is not the *** aspect of bdsm which primarily motivates me.
I really agree with this. A consenting and trusting partnership of any sort involves communication, boundaries, expectations, and trust. There was a behaviour your 'partner' was demonstrating which made you uncomfortable and broke a boundary for you. It doesn't matter what the behaviour was, what Read more… the boundary was, or that it occurred in a D/S dynamic. It matters that ther was a boundary that was communicated. It was broken or breached. You communicated that upset you. And the other partner continued regardless. That shows a partner who is not respecting agreed boundaries and not responding to being challenged about just that. And at that point knowing this is unlikely to change and walking away is for me the best step for all parties.... for what it's worth I wish I had done that when I first made the realisation.
I would say your stance is fair regardless of the dom sub dynamic. That is not ok behaviour in any respecting relationship of any kind (I.e. the repeatedly ignoring the other partner saying they don't accept a certain behaviour).
Quite right. Each has their own perspective, needs and motivations.
Without a shadow of doubt. It elicits an arousal associated with ***ness, the trust you have placed in/ accepted from another, and the sense of the unknown as you scramble to decipher what is coming from your dominant.
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