About me
I’m looking for:
- Friends
- Kinky Dates
- LTR (relationship)
- Events & Places
- Networking
- NSA (no strings...)
- BDSM Lovers
- Cybersex
Description
Newly peaked and learning that the fantasies I've had most of my life are actually part of BDSM.
Hers to meet others and explore my kinks and limits.
Im a SSBBW and a wheelchair user. Some of my limits are pretty much linked to physical issues, and the safety of everyone involved is most important.
Recently met up with a complete arse and got hurt, so don't be surprised if it takes me a little while to get to know and trust you
Limits
. s. Breath control/face fucking or anything that can restrict breathing.
My roles & archetype
My kinks & fetishes
I like:
- 24/7 (Passive)
- Bathroom Denial (Passive)
- BDSM
- Bondage (Active)
- Dildos
- Dirty Talk
- Discipline (Active)
- Double Penetration (Active)
- Fingering
- Foreplay
- Genital Torture
- Group Sex
- Hair Pulling (Active)
- Rough Sex (Active)
- Humiliation (Active)
- Hypersexuality
- Kinky Sex
- Medical Fetish
- Clitoral Pump
- Lesbian (Active)
- Masochism
- Masturbation
- Masturbation Machine
- Mutual Masturbation (Active)
- Needles
- Quickies (Active)
- Role Play
- Sensory Deprivation
- Sex Chat (Active)
- Swimming Pool Sex
- Sex Machine
- Older Sex Partners
- Sex Toys
- Slave Training
- Squirting
- Sybian
- Sweet Pain
- Uniform Fetish
- Vibrators
- Wand Massager (Active)
Wanna know what interests me?:
- Begging (Passive)
- Bisexual (Passive)
- Bondage Body Bags (Active)
- Bondage Bed (Active)
- Bondage Shackles (Active)
- Bondage Tape (Active)
- Doctor Role Play
- Edgeplay (Active)
- Gags (Passive)
- Handcuffs (Active)
- Masturbation Machine
- Medical Restraints
- Needles (Active)
- Orgasm Control (Active)
- Pee Desperation (Passive)
- Post Orgasm Torture (Active)
- Shower Sex (Active)
- Older Sex Partners (Active)
- Submission
- Suspension Bondage (Active)
- Gyno Fetish (Passive)
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Newly peaked and learning that the fantasies I've had most of my life are actually part of BDSM.
Hers to meet others and explore my kinks and limits.
Im a SSBBW and a wheelchair user. Some of my limits are pretty much linked to physical issues, and the safety of everyone involved is most Read more… important.
Recently met up with a complete arse and got hurt, so don't be surprised if it takes me a little while to get to know and trust you
Hers to meet others and explore my kinks and limits.
Im a SSBBW and a wheelchair user. Some of my limits are pretty much linked to physical issues, and the safety of everyone involved is most Read more… important.
Recently met up with a complete arse and got hurt, so don't be surprised if it takes me a little while to get to know and trust you
Losing virginity...
I know it's kinda confusing because I posted about this here, but there wasn't any discussion of BDSM involved. I did warn him it was my first time having sex with a man, and he said he had been with others when it was their first time too. I know that it wasnt ***, I agreed to him having sex with Read more… me, I just wasn't expecting what happened. Tbh I think I kind of ***ed him off because I cried, so he shoved my face into the sofa cushions.
Likemythicalman, Mistressjoy22 ·
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Losing virginity...
Okay, so I'm in my early 30s, and in the past I've had some kinky online relationships, and fooled around with other females in my ***. I've always known my tastes align more with people who are into BDSM, and I like a bit of *** with my pleasure.
Last month I met up with a guy I met online and had Read more…sex with him, it was my time. We actually didn't talk about anything BDSM related so I was kinda expecting vanilla type sex. He went hard quickly and kind of shoved in, and was pretty rough. I knew it was going to be sore but I was in tears, and bled after. I guess I just didn't expect it to be more ***ful than pleasurable.
What can I do to prepare for my next time? How do I make sure it's less ***ful and more enjoyable?
Last month I met up with a guy I met online and had Read more…sex with him, it was my time. We actually didn't talk about anything BDSM related so I was kinda expecting vanilla type sex. He went hard quickly and kind of shoved in, and was pretty rough. I knew it was going to be sore but I was in tears, and bled after. I guess I just didn't expect it to be more ***ful than pleasurable.
What can I do to prepare for my next time? How do I make sure it's less ***ful and more enjoyable?
Likelake-city167458, myfaerie, TwistedTruckerand 10 more… · 17 Replies
Wolfmandave83 To be honest based on how it reads..
Meet up for a hook up .. partner becomes used and distressed with no care given? Sounds like rough unconcerned for partner in distress so *** as even in the heat of the moment you as a human being have obligation to check the person is OK and does not want to Read more… stop....
Anyways.. to answer the main question of how to prevent "this happening again" ?
Spend a bit more time getting to know the person better whilst being able to work into the conversation things you do or don't want.
Also don't be afraid of telling them that you don't have alot of experience so could they be willing to move slowly with things once you feel comfortable enough that they can be trusted.
Anyone serious about you as a person should be more than willing to help you get used to the sensation making it almost ***less if done correctly.
This way you are free to enjoy yourselves together in a safer environment together.
If they do it as it truly should then you would be left wanting alot more than just once
Meet up for a hook up .. partner becomes used and distressed with no care given? Sounds like rough unconcerned for partner in distress so *** as even in the heat of the moment you as a human being have obligation to check the person is OK and does not want to Read more… stop....
Anyways.. to answer the main question of how to prevent "this happening again" ?
Spend a bit more time getting to know the person better whilst being able to work into the conversation things you do or don't want.
Also don't be afraid of telling them that you don't have alot of experience so could they be willing to move slowly with things once you feel comfortable enough that they can be trusted.
Anyone serious about you as a person should be more than willing to help you get used to the sensation making it almost ***less if done correctly.
This way you are free to enjoy yourselves together in a safer environment together.
If they do it as it truly should then you would be left wanting alot more than just once
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07.06.2024 13:52:23
arnhem961 ➦arnhem961 quote Lifeofedge:❝I know it's kinda confusing because I posted about this here, but there wasn't any discussion of BDSM involved. I did warn him it was my first time having sex with a man, and he said he had been with others when it was their first time too. I know that it wasnt ***, I Read more… agreed to him having sex with me, I just wasn't expecting what happened. Tbh I think I kind of ***ed him off because I cried, so he shoved my face into the sofa cushions. ❞
It may not have been your definition of ***, but please don't think it's normal for someone to hear you crying from being in distress & respond by muffling your cries to still have their way with you.
You may be inexperienced, and that's fine. But don't ever think that it makes you anything lesser of a person. Saying you ***ed him off because you cried sounds like you feel ashamed for crying. Really, do not beat yourself up for what this bastard did. You were wronged, but it's not your fault.
It may not have been your definition of ***, but please don't think it's normal for someone to hear you crying from being in distress & respond by muffling your cries to still have their way with you.
You may be inexperienced, and that's fine. But don't ever think that it makes you anything lesser of a person. Saying you ***ed him off because you cried sounds like you feel ashamed for crying. Really, do not beat yourself up for what this bastard did. You were wronged, but it's not your fault.
Likejmal7
· 22.05.2024 1:52:19
PillowPrincess1 ➦PillowPrincess1 quote Lifeofedge:❝I know it's kinda confusing because I posted about this here, but there wasn't any discussion of BDSM involved. I did warn him it was my first time having sex with a man, and he said he had been with others when it was their first time too. I know that it wasnt Read more… ***, I agreed to him having sex with me, I just wasn't expecting what happened. Tbh I think I kind of ***ed him off because I cried, so he shoved my face into the sofa cushions. ❞
Oh no baby girl! I understand why you feel guilty saying so but you were ***d. Not saying you HAVE TO report it- but you should definitely talk to someone - you need care. Just because you agreed to sex does not mean he gets to just do whatever! OMG IM SO ANGRY FOR YOu!!
Oh no baby girl! I understand why you feel guilty saying so but you were ***d. Not saying you HAVE TO report it- but you should definitely talk to someone - you need care. Just because you agreed to sex does not mean he gets to just do whatever! OMG IM SO ANGRY FOR YOu!!
Likestrawberry_babie, arnhem961
· 21.05.2024 22:16:25
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Medical fetish
If you want to have some sort of airwary inserted, a basic OP airway would be much safer.
Newly peaked and learning that the fantasies I've had most of my life are actually part of BDSM.
Hers to meet others and explore my kinks and limits.
Hers to meet others and explore my kinks and limits.
. s. Breath control/face fucking or anything that can restrict breathing.
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