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Looking for someone to teach me. I really wanna try lots of new things and need the right person to show me. 
not open for anything online. don’t send nudes. open for meeting people but won’t jump straight into bed
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- Bondage
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- Edging
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- FFM Threesome
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Looking for someone to teach me. I really wanna try lots of new things and need the right person to show me.
not open for anything online. don’t send nudes. open for meeting people but won’t jump straight into bed
not open for anything online. don’t send nudes. open for meeting people but won’t jump straight into bed
Hookups and friends with benefits are they good or bad?
Hey so I’ve had 4 friends with benefits over the past couple years and some have gone well while others really haven’t. I’m wondering if maybe I’m doing something wrong or if this is just a bad idea in general.
First friend was vanilla and it didn’t last long. Both agreed from the start Read more…relationships weren’t our thing. He hooked up with someone else and then wanted a relationship with them. Ended there and apart from a bit of a rejected feeling didn’t think anything else of it.
Second friend was also vanilla and lasted even less time ended with me ghosting them and not thinking anything of it.
Third friend was kinky. As it was my first kinky hook up we kept things very tame. But I did enjoy everything we done and got on well with them. It was more of a situationship or relationship without labels and I got caught up in my feelings and then thought I wanted a relationship with them. Was honest about this and was rejected. Moved on and couple months later once I realised I didn’t want a relationship with anyone we started talking again but didn’t hook up again as the distance was too great. Ended things now as they have found a new casual partner and I’m slightly scared of the events of the first friend repeating. This situation repeatedly makes me more emotional than I want so I’m thankful to end things now rather than get hurt again.
Fourth friend is also kinky and open about other friends they have. They can be a bit more distant than I prefer but it’s still very new and hopefully will go well. It might not and if it ends I’ll be grateful for the experience.
This track record of failure does make me question myself and what I’m doing wrong and all that.
what is everyone’s opinion on friends with benefits or hook ups? Anyone else got some good or bad hookup stories to share?
First friend was vanilla and it didn’t last long. Both agreed from the start Read more…relationships weren’t our thing. He hooked up with someone else and then wanted a relationship with them. Ended there and apart from a bit of a rejected feeling didn’t think anything else of it.
Second friend was also vanilla and lasted even less time ended with me ghosting them and not thinking anything of it.
Third friend was kinky. As it was my first kinky hook up we kept things very tame. But I did enjoy everything we done and got on well with them. It was more of a situationship or relationship without labels and I got caught up in my feelings and then thought I wanted a relationship with them. Was honest about this and was rejected. Moved on and couple months later once I realised I didn’t want a relationship with anyone we started talking again but didn’t hook up again as the distance was too great. Ended things now as they have found a new casual partner and I’m slightly scared of the events of the first friend repeating. This situation repeatedly makes me more emotional than I want so I’m thankful to end things now rather than get hurt again.
Fourth friend is also kinky and open about other friends they have. They can be a bit more distant than I prefer but it’s still very new and hopefully will go well. It might not and if it ends I’ll be grateful for the experience.
This track record of failure does make me question myself and what I’m doing wrong and all that.
what is everyone’s opinion on friends with benefits or hook ups? Anyone else got some good or bad hookup stories to share?
LikeJaMtogether, WoodyJohnson, Mark19922and 3 more… · 24 Replies
Deleted profile It being good or bad is subjective. If you are monogamous, you may not be able to handle FWBs or hook ups.
If you are more open minded and less inclined for commitment then it might work for you.
I cannot leave my feelings out of kink, either. So I strictly avoid hook ups or FWBs. However, I will Read more… say it makes your kink life VERY difficult. I've been in the lifestyle for 16 years now and still cannot find someone who is monogamous and wants a solid dynamic without being based on sex and lack of commitment.
I think, you have to decide what is more important to you. Getting laid, or waiting for something you deserve.
Just remember, nothing good comes easy.
If you are more open minded and less inclined for commitment then it might work for you.
I cannot leave my feelings out of kink, either. So I strictly avoid hook ups or FWBs. However, I will Read more… say it makes your kink life VERY difficult. I've been in the lifestyle for 16 years now and still cannot find someone who is monogamous and wants a solid dynamic without being based on sex and lack of commitment.
I think, you have to decide what is more important to you. Getting laid, or waiting for something you deserve.
Just remember, nothing good comes easy.
LikeLilkittyprincess2019, Kitanya
24.12.2020 14:50:02
TnALOVES2PLAY ➦TnALOVES2PLAY quote TnALOVES2PLAY:❝I think if you can handle it. Reading your question seems like maybe you're not the type of person that can't just leave their feelings out of it maybe you should just get a kinky girlfriend and then find some kinky friends LOL that's just my opinion it sounds Read more… like you need a person permanently and it would probably benefit U to get a like-minded girl I've been married for 21 years and I think our second date I took him to a. Swingers party and we had some great and wonderful times. And I don't know if you wouldn't exactly call any one of them are friends it was a party that I had started attending regularly about 6 months before I met him. So maybe you shouldn't think of them as friends or try to be friends maybe they should just be hookups regular hookups the only thing I ever ate with anyone there was another girl or two or three LOL. I have had a bad experience that it did not discourage me from trying again LOL❞
It says girl in there every time it's girl or guy I didn't mean to suggest just a girl I guess we all know what's on my mind for this weekend
It says girl in there every time it's girl or guy I didn't mean to suggest just a girl I guess we all know what's on my mind for this weekend
LikeLilkittyprincess2019
· 18.12.2020 8:39:00
TnALOVES2PLAY I think if you can handle it. Reading your question seems like maybe you're not the type of person that can't just leave their feelings out of it maybe you should just get a kinky girlfriend and then find some kinky friends LOL that's just my opinion it sounds like you need a person permanently and Read more… it would probably benefit U to get a like-minded girl I've been married for 21 years and I think our second date I took him to a. Swingers party and we had some great and wonderful times. And I don't know if you wouldn't exactly call any one of them are friends it was a party that I had started attending regularly about 6 months before I met him. So maybe you shouldn't think of them as friends or try to be friends maybe they should just be hookups regular hookups the only thing I ever ate with anyone there was another girl or two or three LOL. I have had a bad experience that it did not discourage me from trying again LOL
LikeLilkittyprincess2019
· 18.12.2020 8:36:21
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