I am a Dom/Top, I will respect you if you respect me.
I am learning knots and suspension, though I have other means of constraint and plenty of impact/sensory toys.
(Toys are cleaned and sanitized after each party/event)
I have some body wax that I have yet to use.
"Do not mistake my kindness for weakness, I am kind to those who are kind to me and mine, if you are unkind to me or mine- weak is not how you will remember me."
SOFT: (has to be with consent), ...
HARD: , poop, ***s, toilet use; I have a shy bladder.
ABDL are those you regress specifically into an infant or toddler age and need/want to wear diapers. Or those who want to be taken care of as if they were infants or toddlers that wear diapers.
Daddy/Mommy-little is a relationship dynamic where one age regresses into any age between 0 and 18, Read more… which may include ABDL or might not.
My girlfriend is very vanilla, but she knows about my kinky side and we talk about it and BDSM partners that I talk to and play with. We don't get into the details of play, but we talk about when and where we play and if we intend on playing again.
I've had many play partners and she knows about Read more… each one, hell she remembers more things about what we talk about than I do.
Communication is very important and transparency is the best policy in any relationship. It also helps to have partners that are accepting of others' differences.