fantasy self:
come play out some beautiful twisted fantasies under my guiding hands. I seek to give you ego death, bliss in caress, as well as . freedom in movement as well as shackles. I will deprive you of air, so that you better know your own breath. I will give you pleasure with such intensity, your body will shiver between agony, and ecstasy. I will give you , so that you know the depths of pleasure. I’ll give you everything you’ve ever wanted. I will take away your wants, and replace them with memories. I’ll have your eyes rolled back while you lick my boots clean. I will lead you by leash, or drive you by whip to places you never wanted to be, but that feel like home. I’m a wild and creative ride, and there will be photos of your mouth open, and hands up at the end, we will laugh together at the sill faces you make at the end.
Real self:
I’m an energetic maker of most things. I’m a climber. I’m a writer in spirit, if not in publication. I love laughter, and making people laugh. I cook well, I fuck well, I can carry one hell of a conversation.
just fuck around and find out already, I know I’m worth your time, will you be worth mine.
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also a big goof (when not trying to hype the alter-egotistical profile self), looking to milk as much pleasure from a set of functioning hips as I can before the big sleep.
I’m decent at Shibari, and am always looking for a partner to play with.
I am claustrophobic, so won’t be bound.
I so far don’t enjoy being a sub.
Understood, and no hard feelings. Goodbye all.
I thinks we might be crossed about my more phobia, which probably triggered a professional response. It might have been more accurate to use the word ***, but phobia implies a person specific ***. I’m sure you have some clinical definition in mind that looks something like: an intense *** of Read more… something that causes a deleterious effect on that persons life. I used the word “phobia” as a novice, to imply that the answer to the question of: what to do to cause discomfort when physical discomfort is off the table, would have to be tailored to the individual. You may be completely right in your response to the clinical definition. I’m sure your training allows you to talk circles around me when it comes to psychotherapy, if that’s what you do for a living. I would say from a novices understanding of the topic, that traumatic events brought up in safe spaces that involve pleasure can help to soften the severity, I thought that was the underpinning of all modern physic therapy. Now, wether the person who made the post is capable or qualified to provide that situation is another story. I don’t think you are wrong in pointing out that there is risk, but much of the kink world is risky, at least relative to traditional sex.
I won’t back down on the holier than thou bit of the statement, on that I’m sure. But hey, you work in the field, so admiringly, have read more of the good books. My guess would be that the proselytizing isn’t only contained in what you went to school for, but I don’t know a smidge about yah!
I’m not suggesting you recreate the events of a parents traumatic death. Seems like the response was a willfully extreme misinterpretation of my statement used to fly in with some holier than thou advice (Classic Dom move, I should have seen it coming).
Gaslighting sees a lot of mileage. Would Read more… using a moth during sex make your partner feel delusional when they are in fact quite sane? Was I just gaslit with being accused of condoning gaslighting?
The questions are manifold.
Anyways I would like to wrap this up by explicitly stating I don’t condone the use of moths that gaslight certain individuals. I now realize it can be extremely dangerous, from a mental health perspective.
There is a traumatic event associated with moths?