I'm firm but fair and patient with new subs .I can't put a pic up due to my job but happy to share while chatting.
I will set rules and structure for my sub and daily contact is a must. I want to build a connection, trust and grow together.
I believe in putting in as much effort as is expected from my sub as it takes 2 people to make this work and I will never betray anyone's trust, my sub is always 100% safe with me.
I don't play games with people's emotions and I expect the same in return, all I ask is honesty and to be upfront about what you are looking for and I will do the same.
A good positive attitude is a must if you want to be mine, i have no time for negativity. I always make myself available to my sub as emotional support is just as important as the physical.
very few limits. nothing illegal or permanent marks. no ***
Nice analogy and a great way to look at it. The lesson being is to give things time to develop and communicate clearly with each other.
Absolutely agree with rigviking , until a dynamic has been agreed and established then u are just 2 people having a conversation. Being a Dom gives no one the right to assume control over anyone else. It's a gift that is given freely by the sub and that can only come with trust.