This has been huge for me recently! I find it really important to spend time with Myself before a session. Listening to music that makes me feel powerful, watching videos of powerful people that I can look up to. I tend to stretch/workout more in general be more active and aggressive. This really Read more… helps me get in the zone of Domme.
For sub space, I makes myself comfy and do self care and generally be more gentle with myself. I slow myself down however I can. Meditation, etc.
Most importantly is finding a partner that can draw these sides out of you 😊