I’d have to say men…as a woman I was taught all my life to be subservient to men, my parents religion emphasized this by not allowing women to speak in church & not allowing women to wear pants or cut their hair or wear makeup & as a young girl my own mother would tell me that a good woman Read more… will be a slave to her husband…for me it was ingrained in my psyche & I believe it started my submissive journey…also I’m in a position of authority now with my job & being a sub allows me to turn off my brain & do as I’m told which is heaven 👍🏻

As a sub for 24 years I can say every Dom is different in style & taste in matters of what they like, I’ve been a total slave but that’s not for me, my last Dom wanted me to be ready at all times for any pleasure he wished, without hesitation when he asked, & with enthusiasm…if he was busy Read more… at the table doing work I would be under the table at his disposal & you kinda begin to know when you just approach & get on your knees & take matters into your own hands so to speak. I cooked & cleaned for him & on occasion I would bathe him & get him ready for bed. There is a learning curve & remember communication is the key to every part of it…usually a Dom will allow questions in the beginning while you’re learning his vibe…just be willing to be ready to do as he asks & eventually he won’t have to ask you’ll already know 👍🏻