Sounds like he's a douchebag. Just because you're submissive doesn't mean you have to submit to everything there's also a mutual respect that a sub openly gives to her Dom out of trust and respect it isn't something that's just hand it over or demanded. I wish I was there I would have politely Read more… asked you if you'd like to go sit somewhere else for a minute and then I would have taken you somewhere else and I definitely would have done the two things you asked me not to do.

Yeah I'm not a sub
Then I tend to be able to change the dynamic of the situation according to the character and atmosphere around me to a certain extent but I don't go out of my way to make a bunch of lies up to try to make someone think I'm something I'm not

Make sure you can prove your point in case it does turn into a big can of worms you have a defense