Submissive heart (used to switch but no longer interested in that), 55 but have young * at home still (half the time). I should add that I do have a Little side that pops out every so often. She is a suppressed part of me I believe, and she’s a lot of fun.
Looking for in-person local-ish relationships (I’m in North Northamptonshire and honestly don’t have the time for anything farther than 30-45 minutes away by car). I’m open to what that looks like, but I’m NOT interested in hook-ups or sex-only connections. BDSM is not always about sex!
Prefer intelligent, professional people who are able to host sometimes and get away for a weekend. I’m financially stable and you should be too. Don’t worry though, I can certainly pay my way and not looking for a handout.
No smokers or drug users. Not even if you vape as I’m sensitive to it.
Desires and Fantasies**
Going to have to think up some new ones!
Northamptonshire, UK
I didn’t find the questionnaire useful as a switch at all. Had to skip many items. I’m glad you can hide it from your profile.
Definitely think about angles and lighting as well.
I still don’t see any hints for Day 7. Help?
I suppose if you wrote a post, people could certainly respond. But since this is an international site, it would need to be broken down by area. I added mentoring to my profile, so if someone local looked at me, they would see that I am interested.
*so 🤦♀️
Thanks for stating this do well. I wholeheartedly agree and hard relate!
I think they already left it up to us. See the first response.
Anyone who wants a mentor could mention it in their profile, same as someone looking to mentor another. I’d suggest stating exactly what are the minimum requirements you’d accept, such as distance from your location, gender (if that’s important to you), type of bdsm/D/s, whether you are looking for Read more… skill development or just ideas, and how much time you think you might need or could offer.
If enough people are interested, it could spread as we recommend the idea to others, who may not fit the brief.
Just my thoughts.