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Not single

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Personal details

Gender Woman
Age 44
Status Not single
Height 172cm
Body shape Plus-size
Eye colour Brown
Hair colour Brown
Hair length Long
Orientation Straight
Ethnicity Caucasian white
Origin UK
Body hair None
Breast size H
Zodiac sign Aries
Tattoos
Piercings

About me

Interested in:

I’m looking for:

  • Friends
  • LTR (relationship)

Description

Incredibly busy wife, mum and carer, mature student, and volunteer. Most of my time is spent caring for, advocating for, and guiding others. The bedroom is the only place I don't want to have to be in control.

Limits

To be explored..

My roles & archetype

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Beautiful women and the cycle of emptiness…

Think the worst I've come across was a guy into breeding. Instead of ghosting him, I offered feedback, told him that I had to be sterilised during a cesarean delivery. Prick had the audacity to say that almost dying during childbirth was no justification for doing that to my body!
Thankfully, I Read more… have come to terms with having no more ***, but what if I hadn't? What if I was depressed and felt inadequate as a woman, as i did in the beginning. He's a dangerous guy! I felt a little foolish for even entertaining him, justifying my actions to a complete nobody, who I had conversed with for 5 minutes, in the first place..

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In stricking out

If I see a profile which doesn't tell me anything about the person, I'll ignore it often than not. Sell yourself, tell us honestly what you're hoping to find.

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Beautiful women and the cycle of emptiness…

I don't mind the barrage of vulgar comments. The weeds are identifying themselves and will be pulled and cast aside immediately. I'm no oil ***ting, but I do expect courtesy, respect, and a proper introduction 🤷‍♀️

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Sexual Midlife Crisis

Sorry.. Married for a decade, great sex, experimental, yet I want more and have no idea why. He is allowing my to explore my kink when the right person comes along

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Sexual Midlife Crisis

Not just a male mid-life crisis.. Married

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Incredibly busy wife, mum and carer, mature student, and volunteer. Most of my time is spent caring for, advocating for, and guiding others. The bedroom is the only place I don't want to have to be in control.
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Incredibly busy wife, mum and carer, mature student, and volunteer. Most of my time is spent caring for, advocating for, and guiding others. The bedroom is the only place I don't want to have to be in control
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To be explored..