I just got my garlic in this weekend for next year and found volunteer shallots

I am usually natural but there are times when I love to be shaved. Never been waxed but I like it when my partner does what they like.

This may be the most important lesson from today.

In 2024 if people cannot understand that lessons are not always black and white and critical thinking must be used rather than just googling something and expect to have some kind of education.. i don't even know how to help them.

I am sorry but I have not blamed anyone for anything. except the direct reply to you. Which was not helpful. However, education is an interesting term to use. When one educates themselves there are so many ways to do that and sometimes that "education" does not teach the same lesson to everyone.

It is interesting that you have done the same thing that you accuse me of. To be cleat.. I am only saying what i have, witnessed and experienced. I fully expect that your experiences will be different than the path I have walked and the others i have known to have walked. Both Dom and Sub , male Read more… female and many flavors in between. However, our experiences are just as valid as yours.

Respectfully, I disagree, I am simply trying to help you to understand WHY the subs tend to want their fantasies fulfilled without looking at the bigger more long lasting relationship picture.
For the majority of submissive men online... They are approached by women who demand *** (tribute) Read more… creating a transactional event. It is now their Job. They have taken compensation in the form of currency for any sort of "relationship" with a submissive male...
The Dominant woman that you describe so well are not in the majority and most certainly are not influencing the newer people in the scene who cannot identify the bad ones. I would argue that the submissive male having been exposed to the lessor first has their perception clouded. I started in munches and with some amazingly helpful, caring , and strong Dominant women who through their actions showed how it could be. I still struggle with the ramifications of those experiences.
I am not saying the Dom women approach relationships this way I am saying a large number of male subs that I have seen both here and other sites do. The ones I have met in real life at munches and kink events do not so much.
I guess the takehome. Online only male subs are partially conditioned to look at relationships as transactional involving cash exchange for the relationship. Female Dominants want a relationship that is long lasting with a good man or woman that more than a whipping post and well honed tongue skill. Neither are not being made whole so they cannot see how to make someone else whole. Their is frustration on both sides and the obvious (to me) is get offline and get *** out of kink.

I would offer a differing way to look at this... If you feel like you are a giving person. While at the same time being ***d to repress your wants/needs (will not open that can of worms). It may be difficult to accept that "just as good" is worth the effort.... For example.. When I have to Read more… something built for me and we have to go through a design process routinely the people working with me will offer options that are just as good as what I asked for but NOT what I wanted/needed.
Now within a relationship I would hope that kink would be less transactional but all to often kink relationships start extremely transactional as everyone is trying to get what they want and need while not looking for the long term relationship. Does it have something to do with scratching the itch.. so to speak? I don't know. What I do know is that when you are having you needs met you are more more able to think rationally about things then when your struggling.

A lot online in general. They do a good job of picking them out and removing them here.

I enjoy the cfnm idea. I have only a passing amount of experience with it but i really did enjoy the experience. However, there were several times at events that it was used with a more *** scene and that was a big let down.

It is hard and scary, Having been through this myself with the threats of exposure if I did not pay X dollars of they would release my information. Thankfully I was able to avoid most of the trouble. Predators are gonna predatate(?). I can tell you that having people you can trust and able to Read more… confide it is super helpful. Especially to mitigate any issues that arise.