I am a Dom. Now with the said i have been in the lifestyle for about 15 years was properly trained as a Dom by an experienced Mentor who I deeply miss since she passed away. Now with that said i am looking for a sub (no switches please have had to many issues with that in the past) im not looking for a play thing not into one night HORAY's i want to take time to get to know the sub im in no rush looking for the right connection i AM Poly, i keep no secrets im 100% honest and blunt if you can not handle it please move onto the next profile cus i ask for the same in my subs
Desires and Fantasies
to be discussed when we get there
i have been open poly since i was in high school and have always been upfront about the fact so i cant really say anything bad due to having alot of diffrent experiances but for me personaly i knew i could just have 1 partner with my bipolar and constant mood swings i knew i was to much for 1 so i Read more… swap between 1-2 other partners who like you i have known for a long time. so i get what your saying but the words solo poly just have never wrung true to me its like an oximoronic statment BUT that doesnt mean im judging you or anything jsut always been a confusion to me cus it just doesnt make sense to me personaly is all
So my opinion on what a Dom is person. Is there somebody who helps? There's a mythm pro in a positive manner, and it's not a hindrance. A burden or another hurdle for them to jump now with that being said, but the original post said different strokes for different folks. So what might work for Read more… ASAP? I have. I mean, I've worked for another sub that somebody else has what my rules are. I may not work with another person's rules. With all that being said a good Dom, he learns about his sub. For months, b four ever, even thinking about collaring her And a lot for it that a caller are they going to play caller a real caller? It's the same thing as a wedding room. You take you with the same amount of seriousness as you do a wedding ring, but again, this is just my opinion
I'm not seeing her views wrong for somebody whose mono review is perfectly fine, but cast judgment on others is where my problem comes in with her statement.What works for one, like the original post said, Will not always work for another, And to throw shade onto somebody else's way of living or Read more… lifestyle is just, I don't know it's what's wrong with a lot of the community, Nowadays
A Dom not a dog stupid autocorrect
So you speak for a very small community of mono minded people, as somebody's been probably for a better part of 20 years, I'm telling you this now I treat 1 girl as good as I treat my other bro. There's no difference in my behavior towards one or the other. Now, with that being said Your statement Read more… of seeing it makes you look like a boy. It shows a very narrow-minded way of thinking. No, if that's the way you'd like to think that is on you, but do not push your personal views onto other people, that is just basics of kink, no matter which way you try it. The original poster had Write comments say about being a dog, so you might want to re-read his posts again. He never seeks anything about being Paul. You or anything else i'm speaking as me personally
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While i have no been on this forums for long the best advice i can give you is this:
as a submissive explore you mind on what you like and what your iffy on (soft limits) and what's a no (hard limits) once you have that in the for front of your brain ask yourself what is it your exactly seeking in Read more… a Dom/me and once you truly answer these questions to yourself start to look into Kink clubs (safe zones basically) where you can get a full grasp of yourself, after that look for you choice of Dom/me and go under trial and always remember sub truly hold all the power and Dom's may only taken what's freely given