There IS one other thing I'd like to share that has been on my mind since the beginning of this thread:
Slightly disagree with RopesAndBallgag, even though after rereading his comment I see where he is coming from. To post on a forum for understanding and support does not have to be "crying" for Read more… help. Neither should we shame ANYONE who does, no matter what side of the slash they fall on. If we cannot come to our Community, our People, our Friends with our doubts, worries and problems, then who? If we do not support Each Other, then we All Lose. *mini rant over*

I dont believe NewMoonRising was speaking of first impressions; only of the importance of having space, acceptance and trust within a relationship. The freedom and comfort to feel as though your partner will not reject you if you are not "On", or "in your role", 24/7, an impossible task for anyone Read more… in the long run, and not a true relationship for either party. I believe they were only speaking to the fact that your profile/ad came across as expecting the person filling that role, with all its trappings, to be perfect at all times.
Not saying this is what you meant, just how it could be percieved, especially by those who might otherwise Find You Intresting! Hope this helps! I've been following this thread and working on a comment of my own, but I agree with most of the good advice already here, and wish you the best of luck!

Um, yes, I'd like to order one of everything, please! LoL😻😈😉
For me it is!🥵

I'm not at ALL one for feet, to each their own, but my goodness I was enthralled by this story from first word to last. Well done! 👏👏👏Will the story continue?

Thank you for being brave enough to share this with us, for us. Like Stig said, we are still evolving and dont need a label. There is no time limit on those things. Please feel free to message me if you'd like. Sending love and light your way.