After coming close to 30 yrs as a Dom and at times Master there is no one size fits all there are ethics and responsibility that you need to have the intelligence to understand and the sight to read reactions of the willing participants within the dynamic/space you occupy if your unable to do this Read more… no amount of training will fix that no amount of training will make you a successful Dominant it may make you a top but that’s a totally different role and personal dynamic. If you want to know about something then you should have the drive and commitment to find out whether this be Impact , ***, manipulation, the list goes on not to go look for training this says your not capable of putting in the personal work and the same can be said for self development. Looking for someone or some group with all the answers is lazy . I had guidance many years ago but if I didn’t fit the blueprint in the first place place the nothing would have worked . Not every one can be what they want it’s just a fact that may seem harsh but I don’t really care if that’s how someone feels that’s not my problem. After so long with so much of an inner view of different so called dynamics that’s how I feel. To be self aware enough to understand the damage that can be done also if you don’t get that then you’re an idiot and should have the knowledge to know that. I’m sure I’ve missed lots of point out but hey I’m human.

Risk .. that’s where it’s at mixed in with nervous excitement. If you can safely build all the components then that’s a job well done .