About me
Interested in:
I’m looking for:
- Friends
- Kinky Dates
- Events & Places
- Networking
Description
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My roles & archetype
My kinks & fetishes
I like:
- Anal Play
- Anal Sex
- Anal Plugs
- Blindfolds
- BDSM
- BDSM Collar
- Bondage
- Bondage Harness
- Bondage Hood
- Bondage Rope
- Chastity
- Corsets
- Crossdresser
- Lingerie Fetish
- Dildos
- Domination
- Spandex Fetish
- Erotic Film
- Exhibitionism
- Facesitting
- Female Domination
- Fetish Wear
- Floggers
- Foreplay
- Foot Fetish
- Goth
- High Heel Fetish
- Kinky Sex
- Kissing
- Tickle Fetish
- Enema
- Licking
- Massage
- Multiple Orgasms
- Nipple Clamps
- Nylon Fetish
- Oral Sex
- Dogging
- Pegging
- Piercings
- PVC Fetish
- Shoe Fetish
- Silk Fetish
- Sex Toys
- Spanking
- Spit Fetish
- Squirting
- Strap-on
- Stocking Fetish
- Submission
- Tantric Sex
- Vanilla
- Wet Look Clothing
- Whips
My places
Fetish.com gives you…
Fetish.com is like an appetizing smorgasbord in Skegness with lots of hot guys to meet up with. Have a look around first if you prefer to see who’s around, or if you know what you want, search by selecting the right category "Kinky Dating”. Nobody stays alone here for long! Fetish.com has tons going on!
Such a good film we had it remastered! Great work Keith waiting for part 2..
Sorry for your loss Fire, a warm hart goes out to you and all who knew BlackWolf.
He will be missed.
I am 41 relatively new here and to the scene however I've hovered around for many many years! Who remembers the early days of Informed Concent and Preaching to the Perverted)
I am very fortunate as my business takes me all over Read more… the country so living on a back water of the east cost is not completely isolating. So far no virus. This allows me the freedom to explore club's, munches and other meetups whenever and with whoever.
I am a switch. I love to dominate and to be dominated. It takes someone very special to get both sides from me. I list my interests below, and yes if I'm interested then it usually switches around.
My big kink is cross dressing, I like to look sexy and authentic. Please no not confuse this with gender realignment, sissifcatio, drag pronouns are a funny thing and can provoke funny feelings. I can only liken myself to a hot Eddy Izzard without the humor or Juliette Noir without the voice or the incredible good looks (YouTube to find out more) btw not my words. If you want to see my pics be nice to me, flattery will get you everywhere CDing is not all of me and it's not a pre requisite for kink.
My other major kink is rope and again this swings both ways. Many years ago I learned about rigging I am now refining my skills by learning and starting looking good.
I originally came here to make friends, connections and event companions. In 3 months that has not changed. I have made some wonderful connections.
Fun, honesty, and excitement is my mantra.
I dont take my personal life two seriously.
So if you like what you see or not and fancy a chat just say Hi. I will respond..... eventually??
== Results from bdsmtest.org ==
100% Brat
100% Switch
100% Degrader
100% Rope bunny
99% Brat tamer
99% Rigger
90% Submissive
89% Sadist
88% Voyeur
84% Dominant
79% Masochist
68% Degradee
65% Slave
63% Boy/Girl
63% Primal (Hunter)
58% Experimentalist
54% Primal (Prey)
53% Non-monogamist
49% Master/Mistress
43% Daddy/Mommy
41% Vanilla
38% Exhibitionist
2% Pet
1% Owner
0% Ageplayer
Soloman
Hit Me Baby One More Time. by. Britney Spears
Cant agree more.
I have recently finished Complex PTSD from surviving. to thriving by Pete Walker.
It goes deep into all of the above, recomend it on audible as its heavy.
😘
Love, connection, communication and compromise should be the basis of a healthy and growing relationship.
We sometimes put to much pressure on one person in our relationships to provide for all our needs.
So the simple answer, providing both parties are learning and growing from the situation. yes.
Great question Bald! I don't claim to fully understand it.🤯 or even part understand. I've had to get changed into a nice floral dress to help put me into an appropriate associated state to help me to try and answer, from my naive point of view anyway.
Elective associated states, are a Read more… brilliant form of therapeutic coping mechanism. Not not only for dealing with CPTSD, but for elevating life generally.
The daily use of meditation, priming, gole setting and exercise produces beautiful states which elevate the body, mind, soul and emotions. This allows more head space to be able to look at the trauma and loss from a different perspective and can allow robust reframing and reprogramming of neuro pathways within the brain.
People can handle similar traumas in completely different ways, as its the way trauma is persevered directly effects the way an individual procedsses.
Creating beautiful states, is key for learning, understanding and ultimately control emotional flashbacks associated with trauma.
So totally this reframe can have a cause and effect on the way way you perceive and deal with the trauma.
Bringing in sapiosexuality or any relationship into the mix complicates things, this can act as a sticking plaster to mask or hide the hurt from the trauma making you think you no longer need to deal with it. So along comes the co dependent element to PTSD...
You cannot rely upon others for your own happiness, it must come from within.. useing co-dependency as a mask will unwittingly allow toxicity to leach into the relationship and cause problems. Once the new energy has diminished.
On the flip side it's always nice to be involved in the new energy of a relationship, it's a welcomed boost to everyones general wellbeing, must be mindful that this is just a boost and not necessarily sustainable as it's not from within.😊🤷♂️😉
You will be, what don't kill you makes you stronger. It's a Cliche but it's true