Hi everyone, not sure if anyone would be generous enough to offer some much appreciated guidance and/or expertise? However, I am new here so have several questions which if answered, should steer myself and fellow newbies in the right direction (what a mouthful) 🤣
Thanks in advance to anyone who
Read more…offers to answer a/some/all question(s).... let the fun begin 😘
1) If you like someone’s profile what is the best approach to get noticed, should I send them a private message, or should I wait for someone to take an interest in me?
2) I’m open to pleasuring others and receiving pleasure, should I be bold/outspoken with my desires and fantasies or should I internalise?
3) How likely is it that I will actually get to meet someone from this website (%), would I be better off simply going to a bar/club and see what happens?
4) Does having a VIP/Premium membership significantly increase my chances of success (closing the deal F2F), or does nominal variance exist between membership levels?
5) If I really want someone to satisfy me because our profiles align strongly, should I up the ante or play it safe with generalised messages/picture sharing?
6) Where can I find the upcoming BDSM nights in London to meet like-minded people who want to explore and potentially realise their sexual fantasies?
Feel free to send me a friend request. I’m very open minded and am actively looking to make friends 👫
Sweet_Chocolate
Thanks in advance to anyone who offers to answer a/some/all question(s).... let the fun begin 😘
1) If you like someone’s profile what is the best approach to get noticed, should I send them a private message, or should I wait for someone to take an interest in me?
2) I’m open to pleasuring others and receiving pleasure, should I be bold/outspoken with my desires and fantasies or should I internalise?
3) How likely is it that I will actually get to meet someone from this website (%), would I be better off simply going to a bar/club and see what happens?
4) Does having a VIP/Premium membership significantly increase my chances of success (closing the deal F2F), or does nominal variance exist between membership levels?
5) If I really want someone to satisfy me because our profiles align strongly, should I up the ante or play it safe with generalised messages/picture sharing?
6) Where can I find the upcoming BDSM nights in London to meet like-minded people who want to explore and potentially realise their sexual fantasies?
Feel free to send me a friend request. I’m very open minded and am actively looking to make friends 👫
Sweet_Chocolate❞
1. Like a few pics, leave some comments, and if you're feeling bold leave a "spank"
2. Lay it out there on YOUR OWN profile and don't bombard anyone privately with it.
3. Bars might not have kinky fetish folks, but unless someone is near to you or there's a local event the chances of meeting someone here are slim to none.
4. No.
5. Profiles are not the end all of chemistry. Play it safe and get to know the person through messaging until you're given the go-ahead.
6. https://www.fetish.com/events
I have no idea what you even mean on that
➦eyemblacksheep quote Sweet_Chocolate:❝6) Where can I find Read more… the upcoming BDSM nights in London to meet like-minded people who want to explore and potentially realise their sexual fantasies?❞
there are a load of fetish clubs, munches and events in London. I was at THREE last weekend (a munch, a club and a kink film/awards festival) but a lot depends on entirely what you're into. I've been recommending Club DVS as they do munches, events and workshops and list other events