This is my wife's fantasy and I want to give it to her for Christmas.
I'm trying to setup up a Christmas surprise for my wife with another man she has never meet before and who is into BDSM and a dom. She's wanting a threesome and DP.
I don't know who this person will be and that's why I got a profile here.
Is this safe? Would you do this, this way. Can't go heom due to the dogs.
I would be apprehensive about anyone who leaps up and says "I will do it" - whilst you don't have a lot of time to do basic vetting (just making sure they are what they say and not just wanting to fuck your wife)
of course, there'll always be a risk - Read more… but this is something where you want the risk - and someone you can chat with to give you confidence can help - and of course it may be easier to vet and book a Pro, although Male Professionals are often fewer and a lot are just chancers.
My recommendation would be to start to visit local munches and dungeons depending on what is in your area - and meet people and if you see someone with potential, get to know them before springing your idea on them.