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Gender Woman
Age 58
Status Single
Height 148cm
Body shape Plus-size
Eye colour Brown
Hair colour Brown
Hair length Long
Orientation Bisexual
Ethnicity Indigenous
Origin USA
Zodiac sign Scorpio
Smoker
Tattoos
Piercings
Disability

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READ THIS FULLY~BEFORE APPROACHING ME! OR IT'LL WASTE A LOTTA MY TIME>AND YOURS. SEEKING SUBS ONLY!!! Reading IS Fundamental folks. SSBBW MISTRESS looking for a MALE or possibly a FEMALE sub, primarily geared to eventually evolve into a LT FLR. Bring your manners with you when you approach me as such. EITHER WAY~I DON'T DEAL WITH WILLFULLY DISOBEDIENT & INSOLENT CHILDREN~SO THIS IS A BRAT FREE ZONE! Save that bullshit MADEUP GAME for the boys here who call themselves doms...THEY love that shit ok? IF YOU'RE NOT VAXXED & BOOSTERED>>>KEEP MOVING! BE STD FREE WITH PROOF~AS I AM! Tri state works...OR ASK IF you think you're too far. SOCIAL DRINKERS OK. I'M ALMOST 20 YRS CLEAN FROM NARCOTICS~NO ***! Age range IS set 40 to 60. Adjustments are made IF there's a good connection. BIKERS PREFERRED!!! RACE IS UNIMPORTANT. WELL UNLESS YOU'RE NATIVE~then move to the front of my prospective lineup. Exceptions are definitely extended further FOR NATIVES. Look at my list of likes~It'll be what's expected of you eventually~it's of course subject to our discussion on your soft & hard limits. ALWAYS SAFE, SANE AND CONSENSUAL. NO RACE PLAY>>>EVER! NO COUPLES~OR ANYONE IN AN OPEN RELATIONSHIP CONSIDERED! THIS IS STRICTLY FOR SINGLES ONLY!

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ThumperG
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Do All Female Doms Require a Financial Tribute?

Nope nopety nope to ALL the nopes in Nopeville. Regardless of what other people may try to lead you to believe when speaking ABOUT US. While diamonds ARE a girls best friend as the song says~true devotion shines much brighter. So no we ALL don't charge~Mistress
😉💜😎

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ThumperG
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READ THIS FULLY~BEFORE APPROACHING ME! OR IT'LL WASTE A LOTTA MY TIME>AND YOURS. SEEKING SUBS ONLY!!! Reading IS Fundamental folks. SSBBW MISTRESS looking for a MALE or possibly a FEMALE sub, primarily geared to eventually evolve into a LT FLR. Bring your manners with you when you approach me Read more… as such. EITHER WAY~I DON'T DEAL WITH WILLFULLY DISOBEDIENT & INSOLENT CHILDREN~SO THIS IS A BRAT FREE ZONE! Save that bullshit MADEUP GAME for the boys here who call themselves doms...THEY love that shit ok? IF YOU'RE NOT VAXXED & BOOSTERED>>>KEEP MOVING! BE STD FREE WITH PROOF~AS I AM! Tri state works...OR ASK IF you think you're too far. SOCIAL DRINKERS OK. I'M ALMOST 20 YRS CLEAN FROM NARCOTICS~NO DRUGS! Age range IS set 40 to 60. Adjustments are made IF there's a good connection. BIKERS PREFERRED!!! RACE IS UNIMPORTANT. WELL UNLESS YOU'RE NATIVE~then move to the front of my prospective lineup. Exceptions are definitely extended further FOR NATIVES. Look at my list of likes~It'll be what's expected of you eventually~it's of course subject to our discussion on your soft & hard limits. ALWAYS SAFE, SANE AND CONSENSUAL. NO RACE PLAY>>>EVER! NO COUPLES~OR ANYONE IN AN OPEN RELATIONSHIP CONSIDERED! THIS IS STRICTLY FOR SINGLES ONLY!
ThumperG
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Paying of femdom mistress

It is somewhat true that we are "a rare people" to find as you say. In your opinion it is an honor to pay your Mistress and that it is "proof" of your devotion to her. But from my point of view, and after decades of being in this lifestyle~and believe me I do not lack any insight when it comes to Read more… this. I have always felt devotion will always go much further in ithe way of their proof, than mere dollars ever will. As they say, money can't buy you happiness. Money also runs out but true loyalty never does~Mistress
😉💜😎

ThumperG
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Paying of femdom mistress

PREACH IT SISTER! I hear you~I am what technically counts as a "little person" ok? I have the Lordosis form of scoliosis which comes with it and I stand at 4 feet and 10 inches tall. Trust me, it's not like I really get too much taller once I get up on a freaking ladder! You should see me trying to Read more… get into some of the higher shelves in the kitchen! I'm the Queen of the long spoons cuz I have to use them to knock cans of things down. When I'm at the store, I usually wait until there's nobody in the same aisle as me. So that way I can start scaling the shells to get what I need without getting yelled at! I do appreciate your humor and sarcasm, people don't realize how it is to breathe the air down here~Mistress 😂💜😎

ThumperG
icon-wio ThumperG wrote something in the forum
  • 15.04.2023 18:38:06
  • Female (58)
  • East Meadow
  • Single
Daddy vs Mommy

IT SEEMS...Those are the two key words in your statement. It seems that way because a lot of times it's encouraged to be that way. These same words were used when they're with other partners out in the other world. Who's your Daddy...Who's your Daddy...Who's your Daddy? Or for some others, Aye Papi Read more… with the downcast eye 😂 Get it~Mistress

ThumperG
icon-wio ThumperG wrote something in the forum
  • 14.04.2023 18:31:17
  • Female (58)
  • East Meadow
  • Single
So you’ve called an ambulance…..

No they are floors with sometimes only 2 per floor and 2 RNs and maybe 1 LPN and 1 Aide if they were lucky. I believe there was 20 or 22 beds up there? She used to work overnights which is the other reason why they'd run light on orderlies... People are supposed to be sleeping. But sometimes they Read more… don't, sometimes they wake up, sometimes they are irate, and of course sometimes they get violent. He may be on the other side of the loop the other RN and you're getting flung 14 rooms down on the totally other side of the oval where the other room is. Whoever is closest just follows the screams and runs is how it works in any hospital.

ThumperG
icon-wio ThumperG wrote something in the forum
  • 14.04.2023 18:21:44
  • Female (58)
  • East Meadow
  • Single
So you’ve called an ambulance…..

My mother and self count as the TRUE LITTLES~4 feet 10 inches and under crew you know. So in the few mins it'd take an orderly to get to a room? My mother has been picked up and flung against the wall a bunch of times. She had like three back surgeries because she's degenerative bone disease Read more… because the discs were crumbling. You don't know TRUE FIRE until you've had a little person run up, and take a flying leap and jump onto you to try to hold you down on the bed for a shot cuz that's going to be their only chance to pin you down before the orderly gets in there.
😉💪🔥😎💉😂

ThumperG
icon-wio ThumperG wrote something in the forum
  • 14.04.2023 17:35:32
  • Female (58)
  • East Meadow
  • Single
My new guy needs me to submit... How do I know this isn't the beginning of an abusive relationship?

I'm going to try messaging you later on this evening when I get done doll ok? I am involved with different levels of advocacy but don't have my main advocate on your state any longer. So I'm going to try to reach out and see who possible eyes and ears by you. I am outta NY State and today... I'm Read more… actually working in a different time zone so I have to go TO SLEEP in a bit ok? I've been on flipped sleep for like 3 days, so it's 11:30 a.m. it's time for bed and let's try to connect. Anytime POST 3:30/4:00, a travel mug of coffee and I should be somewhat human again~Mistress 😉💜😎😂

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ThumperG
icon-wio ThumperG wrote something in the forum
Can you be a little and be in a FLR?

She NEVER specified any gender identification in her post for who "she" is because she seems as if she is female presenting, or for who she's looking for as her dominant. Be careful there with the assumption that it will automatically be a male or a male presenting person~Mistress

ThumperG
icon-wio ThumperG wrote something in the forum
  • 13.04.2023 22:17:36
  • Female (58)
  • East Meadow
  • Single
My new guy needs me to submit... How do I know this isn't the beginning of an abusive relationship?

Nope nopety nope to ALL the nopes in Nopeville. If she consented to be his submissive then this behavior shouldn't all of a sudden come into her realm AFTER THEY HAD A FIGHT... he's going to publicly punish her. That doesn't fall under consensual at all get it? That's about revenge and that's about Read more… power and that's about "teaching her a lesson" because he didn't like what she had to say during their fight. It's because whatever it was she stood up for herself. So now she's going to have to pay for it, get it? That has nothing to do with submission AS a sub...that's a totally different story. THAT was the point where he switched off the lights on her and things became payback for him and things got very dark for her~Mistress

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ThumperG
icon-wio ThumperG wrote something in the forum
  • 13.04.2023 16:29:03
  • Female (58)
  • East Meadow
  • Single
Leading ladies

Honey... DON'T ever feel bad about your desires ok? Understand that this lifestyle is all about safe sane and consensual. So your personal desires are UNLESS it involves things with beings such as children OR animals. That is because they can NEVER fall under the umbrella of consensual~you see? Read more… My first introduction to this lifestyle was with dating and then later on I was legally married into the lifestyle when I was 19. So early on, I lived this every single day AS A D/s 24/7 relationship. We were also partners because we ran a side business together ok? So believe me when I tell you that there was no separation at all when it came to us. The marriage fell apart and SOME of it had to do with the lifestyle but also for other reasons also. That is something that you will find with people outside of this lifestyle. It is not exclusive to us that over time things don't work out or ppl fight too much, don't spend enough time together or don't communicate or whatever their issues are. ALL of that are things that can happen to all of us. That's why the divorce rate is so high, it has nothing to do with our lifestyle but it has everything to do with what you put into any relationship. I had found other partners later on and some I chose not to live with but most we did live together. Feel free to message me, I am ALWAYS open to having new friends 😉💜😎

ThumperG
icon-wio ThumperG wrote something in the forum
Building bonds

Ohuhh GEEZ! Absolutely! If I can't sit there across the table and have a simple cup of coffee with you and be able to have normal conversation? Then honestly, I don't want to deal with you in any other way is how I look at it.

ThumperG
icon-wio ThumperG wrote something in the forum
Leading ladies

Just to respond to your original post here. Yes it is absolutely doable FROM someone who's actually lived it AND never been under any kind of microscope since the 80s and without being studied like somebody else's insect on a pin board. So that's all I've got to say to anybody about that~Mistress Read more… 😉💜😎

ThumperG
icon-wio ThumperG wrote something in the forum
  • 11.04.2023 22:20:38
  • Female (58)
  • East Meadow
  • Single
Creepy or normal for a dm?

YUP! I was healthy and then I got a BAD CASE OF CHILDREN that sent me off course for quite some time. It took me a while to recover, pretty much over 25 years I'd say that I struggled with this AFFLICTION... right? IN FACT the man who gave it to me also had symptoms and he'd be in the house dealing Read more… with it or occasionally show up to handle things with this DISEASE OF DADDY DUTY AS BEST HE COULD. UNTIL we could FINALLY GET THE CURE AND THEY WILL FINALLY.ouf of our home~right? 😂😂😂

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ThumperG
icon-wio ThumperG wrote something in the forum
  • 11.04.2023 20:56:29
  • Female (58)
  • East Meadow
  • Single
Servitude to a goddess

Absolutely wonderful when there is a most beautiful.feast set out before you. It is an exquisite realization when one knows the ways of their proper place in the Universe has delivered them there and their duty is to bring pleasure~Mistress
XO😉💜😎

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