About me
Interested in:
I’m looking for:
- Friends
- Kinky Dates
- LTR (relationship)
- Events & Places
- NSA (no strings...)
- BDSM Lovers
Description
Experienced Dominant, happily married but permitted to play. Focus on bondage/restraints, impact play (not especially heavy), breath play and sensory play but dabbled in much else. Pretty good play environment at home (two spanking benches, pillory, a couple of frames, one single- and one double-sided St Andrew's crosses, whipping post, large cage) plus lots of toys for hosting or travel. Not exactly a service Top but I do care that my playmates enjoy themselves and are looked after (including aftercare). Wife is never involved but is friendly to playmates. Two cats are also never involved but are typical selfish, scared mogs! I host regular play and social events amd have visited a number of other events around the country. I'm seeking new playmates and new experiences, learning or stealing ideas and best practice from all and sundry. Please note that, while I have done non-sexual scenes on many occasions, my preference is very much for intimacy. This may be part pf a scene or afterwards or both, but kinky lovers jumpr to the front of the queue.
Desires and Fantasies
Seeking new playmates to join existing ones or enjoy singly. Explore variations on bondage (peril scenarios, for instance), visit new event venues, find outdoor playspots (done a number of kinky camping trips and they were great fun).
My roles & archetype
My kinks & fetishes
I like:
- Fear Play (Active)
- Blindfolds (Active)
- Ball Gag (Active)
- BDSM (Active)
- Bondage Stocks (Active)
- Bondage (Active)
- Bondage Bed (Active)
- Bondage Belt (Active)
- Bondage Cuffs (Active)
- Bondage Hood (Active)
- Bondage Rope (Active)
- Breath Play (Active)
- Collar & Leash (Active)
- Cuddling (Active)
- Cunnilingus (Active)
- Domination (Active)
- Threesomes (Active)
- Violet Wand (Active)
- Extreme Bondage (Active)
- FFM Threesome (Active)
- Floggers (Active)
- Foreplay (Active)
- Gags (Active)
- Torturer - Captive Prisoner (Active)
- Handcuffs (Active)
- Rough Sex (Active)
- Kissing (Active)
- Multiple Orgasms (Active)
- Polyamory (Active)
- Sensory Deprivation (Active)
- Spanking (Active)
- Cum Swallowing (Active)
- Spreader Bar (Active)
- Submission
- Suspension Bondage (Active)
- Suspension Cuffs (Active)
- Sweet Pain (Active)
- Vampire Gloves (Active)
- Vibrators (Active)
- Water Bondage (Active)
My places
Fetish.com gives you…
Fetish.com is like an appetizing smorgasbord in Harrogate with lots of hot guys to meet up with. Have a look around first if you prefer to see who’s around, or if you know what you want, search by selecting the right category "Kinky Dating”. Nobody stays alone here for long! Fetish.com has tons going on!
Don't arrive too early. Don't overstay your welcome. Help the organisers where possible, tidying up or helping move kit (bit ask first). Read all joining instructions carefully and adhere to them, seeking clarification if necessary. Don't presume that play or even chat are guaranteed. Don't badger Read more… other guests or DM them before the event, but it's acceptable to reach out to the organisers ahead of time. Don't be a wallfrlower but equally don't hog the event. Don't seek out personal details of other attendees - they'll volunteer what they want people to know. Don't drink too much alcohol (even a tipple can cause concerns if it comes to play by people who don't know your tolerance levels). Never attend under the influence It unnerves people and is a major play risk. Make an effort in dressing (see checking event guidelines above). Good personal grooming is well-received.
My personal take on this sort of situation is that if each play session and scene is negotiated then you're Top/bottom. If you are working from a list of previously-agreed scenes, where she gives blanket permissions and you choose which one to enact, then that's D/s. Whether it's an hour or a Read more… lifetime, the label refers more to the style of negotiation and power exchange. Don't get too hung up on specific labels though -it's more about enthusiastic, ongoing, informed consent and what works for you two.
They'll no doubt mention their successful play sessions. Ask them about the unsuccessful ones, so that you learn how they deal with rejection, overcome unexpected changes, react to dangerous situations, own mistakes, etc.
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