OP, prior to this engagement, what sort of self-education had you done on online relationship scams, fake online FemDoms, the realities of a genuine financial kink etc?
It's awful that you've been rinsed by this person, who in all likelihood is a big standard scammer (highly unlikely to be a Read more… woman, let alone dominant.)
Online financial scams have been common knowledge for several years.
What 'defence mechanisms' did you put in place to identify approaches from scammers?
It's really important to protect yourself.
I hope you no longer have contact with this person.
And going forward, I hope you take onboard all the advice offered in this thread.
In future, if an unknown person asks for any cash, even a couple of quid, just ignore them.
They're not interested in you, only your bank account

👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏

Haha! You're a boss ❤️

Kudos to you. You are a boss.

This is such a wonderful post. I agree with every word.

OMG, everyone should read this

Yes. Absolutely this.

Hear hear. There's also the issue of antibiotic-resistant gonorrhoea too.

Yes, fully agree with this.

Yep, I think it's so important to obtain your research from a wide range of sources. I was obsessed with blogs such as Bitchy Jones Diary, Not Just Bitchy, Domme Chronicles and O Miss Pearl. Found a couple of very informative blogs by sub guys. Talked to people at munches and Femdom events. Read more… Frequented the Femdom boards on Fetlife. There are so many resources to draw from. I think it's a shame that so few subs (especially those that are online) are willing to do any research beyond watching Femdom porn.