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Personal details

Gender Man
Age 34
Status Single
Height 174cm
Weight 98kg
Body shape Average build
Eye colour Blue
Hair colour Blond
Hair length Short
Beard Mustache
Orientation Straight
Ethnicity Caucasian white
Origin USA
Body hair Hairy
Zodiac sign Scorpio
Glasses
Smoker
Tattoos
Piercings
Disability

About me

Interested in:

I’m looking for:

  • Kinky Dates
  • LTR (relationship)

Description

I'm here looking for a romantic but kinky relationship. I have a detailed idea of what I want. I'm looking for my princess;
a sub whose kinks are orgasm control, begging, and chastity. In O/our dynamic she will wear only dresses and skirts (no male clothing). I'm very loyal, faithful, and monogamous and seek reciprocity on all these fronts. I will marry my sub before anything sexual will happen. Also looking for something romantic, not just kinky.

Limits

To have rough, hardcore, hot, sex with a partner who has consented to not orgasm through it. I want a partner who is available and who enjoys pleasing me. I want someone to cuddle with and care for.

My roles & archetype

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Westernsky11
icon-wio Westernsky11 created a topic in New to BDSM, Kink & Fetish?
Apearance
I'm confessing to being insecure about my appearance when asking this. In order to date in this subculture do you have to look good? I do acknowledge that appearance can be subjective. My hope is that chemistry can be achieved through more than just one's appearance.
LikeArkRex, goodboy_shastiand 7 more… · 28 Replies
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Taurus Listen, I have an okay picture but I have more red flags than should be appropriate. Looks get the DM but it takes a special person that I’ll securely attach to. You know what I look for before responding? Respect and communication. If someone messages me without knowing me that they want to cum on Read more… my face, delete. If someone messages me and says, “Hey, I read your bio. I’m a dom. What is it about dom/sub that you’re interested in knowing more about.” I’ll probably respond. You sound like a good communicator Wes.
LikeScrapman412, big-spring411727 one month ago
MissGvus
MissGvus ➦MissGvus quote BruiseWayne:❝Here's the honest unfiltered truth, people like to downplay how important looks are. Looks actually tell a whole lot about you. Sometimes you can judge a book by it's cover, but despite that looks for most people are just what gets your foot in the door, and then Read more… chemistry and compatibility, etc is what invites you in and lets you stay a while. But you will be treated better or worse depending on who you're dealing with based solely off of how you look, whether the person means to do that or not. It's just how people are wired. No one wants to seem like they're superficial when the topic comes up either so they bend over backwards trying to convince anyone who happens to be paying attention ( and possibly themselves ) how little it actually matters, but it matters quite a bit. The good news is it's not the ONLY thing that matters though, and especially for men chasing after women your personality will count for a whole lot more than how you look unless you're in like the top 1% of ridiculously attractive looking people, lol. So to answer your question, yes most chemistry is only somewhat based on how you look and the rest comes down to how charming or funny and interesting and exciting you are. If you share the same moral framework with someone. If your interests and hobbies align, and if you have complimentary personality traits. If they think you're a good person, or someone they can see themselves starting a family with. And etc etc etc. Besides anyone who is only interested in you based off of how you look isn't someone you want to be with in the first place. Hope that helps. ❞
This was one of the better written, honest explanations I've ever come across
Likejaxzzz, Scrapman412 · one month ago
Nononolan
Nononolan Always clean and clean clothes on Always clean and clean clothes on
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Westernsky11
icon-wio Westernsky11 wrote something in the forum
  • 4 months ago
  • Male (34)
  • Rushford
  • Single
Too Much Denial

This is helpful. Thank you.

LikeDenverBunny, sassygyal305 · Jump to discussion
Westernsky11
icon-wio Westernsky11 wrote something in the forum
  • 5 months ago
  • Male (34)
  • Rushford
  • Single
Too Much Denial

For the record I want my partner to cum. It's finding a balance between chastity and orgasms that I need to figure out.

Westernsky11
icon-wio Westernsky11 wrote something in the forum
  • 5 months ago
  • Male (34)
  • Rushford
  • Single
Head shaving fetish

Shaving one's head is an act of sacrifice. It's sexy as hell.

LikeMistresschr · Jump to discussion
Westernsky11
icon-wio Westernsky11 wrote something in the forum
  • 5 months ago
  • Male (34)
  • Rushford
  • Single
Desirable Traits of a Submissive

I find desire and willingness to serve the most sexy. Above all else a desire to submit to the arrangement the most attractive trait.

Westernsky11
icon-wio Westernsky11 wrote something in the forum
  • 5 months ago
  • Male (34)
  • Rushford
  • Single
Subs - How Do You Like To Be Approached By A Dom On This App

Problem for anyone seeking a female sub is that they get a high volume of requests. How does one stand out and still start out as yourself?

Westernsky11
icon-wio Westernsky11 wrote something in the forum
  • 5 months ago
  • Male (34)
  • Rushford
  • Single
Too Much Denial

In case anyone is wondering, submissivesguide has an article detailing how a Dom set expectations for his sub. It was a "my way or the highway" kind of deal. Still negotiated upon and consented to. I can find the link if interested. I believe the author was Mrs Darling.

Westernsky11
icon-wio Westernsky11 wrote something in the forum
  • 5 months ago
  • Male (34)
  • Rushford
  • Single
Too Much Denial

Spiral66 I am confused on whether I should set some limits. Some resources say that the Dom can set such limits. Others assert that it is a pure negotiation between sub and Dom. I do prefer the latter but not sure how to inquire when messaging someone. So it's good to know what the sub expects too.

Westernsky11
icon-wio Westernsky11 created a topic in New to BDSM, Kink & Fetish?
Too Much Denial
How much denial is too much? Do Subs have limits on how long they can go without an orgasm/ how few orgasms they can have? What expectation should I have as a Dom?
LikeDom-Gentle, Mistresschr, HappyFatLadyand 17 more… · 19 Replies
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xxyyoverndone
xxyyoverndone If my sub is playful, they are allowed as many anal orgasms as can be managed. And for every eyebrow just raised, yes. There are. They do exist. But as for genital masturbation, strictly on my permission, and there had better have been an incredible pleading to grant such a thing. If my sub has Read more… used their safe word, then they are absolutely free to do as they wishe, until such time as she/he resubmits. When they does & we have discussed why the safeword was used, If I feel the usage was justified, all is good, and I will honor their reasonings and usage in the future as well.
If, however, I felt it was self serving and manipulative, then if we are to remain any type of dynamic at all, then, very severe punisments are up for discussion. As I have stated before, I do not tolerate deceipt or being "bratty"
Like · one month ago
dildomechanic2024
dildomechanic2024 A chasity belt can be helpful and add a remote control vibrator lovense.*om A chasity belt can be helpful and add a remote control vibrator lovense.*om
Like · 4 months ago
Westernsky11
Westernsky11 ➦Westernsky11 quote DenverBunny:❝In my dynamic we practice orgasm control. I don’t come, ever, without permission. This includes self play, which im also not allowed to do without permission. We discussed that aspect of our dynamic and mutually agreed on it. So yes, I gave initial consent for him Read more… to control, but now he sets the limits. This is also an important part of safe words and with draw of consent. Safe words are often used mid play, but they can be utilized here as well. Outside of play if I said my safe word it would mean that I needed a momentary step out of our power exchange and at that point I could explain the the denial had gone of too long for my capabilities and needed to stop. As always, the sub chooses to give the control to their Dominant. The Dominant has that control (within prescribed boundaries) until it is rescinded.❞
This is helpful. Thank you.
LikeDenverBunny, sassygyal305 · 4 months ago
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To have rough, hardcore, hot, sex with a partner who has consented to not orgasm through it. I want a partner who is available and who enjoys pleasing me. I want someone to cuddle with and care for.
Westernsky11
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  • 5 months ago
  • Male (34)
  • Rushford
  • Single
I'm here looking for a romantic but kinky relationship. I have a detailed idea of what I want. I'm looking for my princess;
a sub whose kinks are orgasm control, begging, and chastity. In O/our dynamic she will wear only dresses and skirts (no male clothing). I'm very loyal, faithful, and Read more… monogamous and seek reciprocity on all these fronts. I will marry my sub before anything sexual will happen. Also looking for something romantic, not just kinky.
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