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Personal details

Gender Man
Age 34
Status Single
Height 174cm
Weight 98kg
Body shape Average build
Eye colour Blue
Hair colour Blond
Hair length Short
Beard Mustache
Orientation Straight
Ethnicity Caucasian white
Origin USA
Body hair Hairy
Zodiac sign Scorpio
Glasses
Smoker
Tattoos
Piercings
Disability

About me

Interested in:

I’m looking for:

  • Kinky Dates
  • LTR (relationship)

Description

I'm here looking for a romantic but kinky relationship. I have a detailed idea of what I want. I'm looking for my princess;
a sub whose kinks are orgasm control, begging, and chastity. In O/our dynamic she will wear only dresses and skirts (no male clothing). I'm very loyal, faithful, and monogamous and seek reciprocity on all these fronts. I will marry my sub before anything sexual will happen. Also looking for something romantic, not just kinky.

Limits

To have rough, hardcore, hot, sex with a partner who has consented to not orgasm through it. I want a partner who is available and who enjoys pleasing me. I want someone to cuddle with and care for.

My roles & archetype

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Westernsky11
icon-wio Westernsky11 created a topic in New to BDSM, Kink & Fetish?
Apearance
I'm confessing to being insecure about my appearance when asking this. In order to date in this subculture do you have to look good? I do acknowledge that appearance can be subjective. My hope is that chemistry can be achieved through more than just one's appearance.
LikeArkRex, goodboy_shasti, mLinand 7 more… · 25 Replies
nycgentledaddy
nycgentledaddy I think attraction is important in any relationship/dynamic; however, what people find attractive varies from person to person and no it’s not limited to simply appearance. I think attraction is important in any relationship/dynamic; however, what people find attractive varies from person to person and no it’s not limited to simply appearance.
Like · 30.11.2024 2:57:48
DontYukSomeonesYum
DontYukSomeonesYum I don’t believe looks are important because the more “good looking” a person, usually the more issues they come with. Being confident and secure regardless of what one looks like without arrogance is attractive to most I don’t believe looks are important because the more “good looking” a person, usually the more issues they come with. Being confident and secure regardless of what one looks like without arrogance is attractive to most
Likesassygyal305, liverpool349, Alex8348and 3 more… · 28.11.2024 20:15:39
Scrapman412
Scrapman412 BruiseWayne agreed. However why do ppl think they are soo much better than someone else . We are all just ppl. Soo what if we are kinks ? If you are approached by a person and have no attraction. Be honest and say no thank you . There is no reason to ghost or mislead also you don't have to explain your reasons. Just be decently polite. Just my thoughts on the matter BruiseWayne agreed. However why do ppl think they are soo much better than someone else . We are all just ppl. Soo what if we are kinks ? If you are approached by a person and have no attraction. Be honest and say no thank you . There is no reason to ghost or mislead also you don't have to explain your reasons. Just be decently polite. Just my thoughts on the matter
LikeOralSlut, sassygyal305 · 28.11.2024 17:47:59
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Westernsky11
icon-wio Westernsky11 wrote something in the forum
  • 25.11.2024 5:00:32
  • Male (34)
  • Rushford
  • Single
Too Much Denial

This is helpful. Thank you.

LikeDenverKitten, sassygyal305 · Jump to discussion
Westernsky11
icon-wio Westernsky11 wrote something in the forum
  • 20.11.2024 1:42:01
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Too Much Denial

For the record I want my partner to cum. It's finding a balance between chastity and orgasms that I need to figure out.

Westernsky11
icon-wio Westernsky11 wrote something in the forum
  • 20.11.2024 0:42:32
  • Male (34)
  • Rushford
  • Single
Head shaving fetish

Shaving one's head is an act of sacrifice. It's sexy as hell.

LikeMistresschr · Jump to discussion
Westernsky11
icon-wio Westernsky11 wrote something in the forum
  • 20.11.2024 0:41:24
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  • Rushford
  • Single
Desirable Traits of a Submissive

I find desire and willingness to serve the most sexy. Above all else a desire to submit to the arrangement the most attractive trait.

Westernsky11
icon-wio Westernsky11 wrote something in the forum
  • 19.11.2024 21:30:48
  • Male (34)
  • Rushford
  • Single
Subs - How Do You Like To Be Approached By A Dom On This App

Problem for anyone seeking a female sub is that they get a high volume of requests. How does one stand out and still start out as yourself?

Westernsky11
icon-wio Westernsky11 wrote something in the forum
  • 18.11.2024 19:45:20
  • Male (34)
  • Rushford
  • Single
Too Much Denial

In case anyone is wondering, submissivesguide has an article detailing how a Dom set expectations for his sub. It was a "my way or the highway" kind of deal. Still negotiated upon and consented to. I can find the link if interested. I believe the author was Mrs Darling.

Westernsky11
icon-wio Westernsky11 wrote something in the forum
  • 18.11.2024 19:40:06
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  • Rushford
  • Single
Too Much Denial

Spiral66 I am confused on whether I should set some limits. Some resources say that the Dom can set such limits. Others assert that it is a pure negotiation between sub and Dom. I do prefer the latter but not sure how to inquire when messaging someone. So it's good to know what the sub expects too.

Westernsky11
icon-wio Westernsky11 created a topic in New to BDSM, Kink & Fetish?
Too Much Denial
How much denial is too much? Do Subs have limits on how long they can go without an orgasm/ how few orgasms they can have? What expectation should I have as a Dom?
LikeSpanker666, Dom-Gentle, Mistresschrand 16 more… · 18 Replies
dildomechanic2024
dildomechanic2024 A chasity belt can be helpful and add a remote control vibrator lovense.*om A chasity belt can be helpful and add a remote control vibrator lovense.*om
Like · 28.11.2024 23:45:24
Westernsky11
Westernsky11 ➦Westernsky11 quote DenverKitten:❝In my dynamic we practice orgasm control. I don’t come, ever, without permission. This includes self play, which im also not allowed to do without permission. We discussed that aspect of our dynamic and mutually agreed on it. So yes, I gave initial consent for Read more… him to control, but now he sets the limits. This is also an important part of safe words and with draw of consent. Safe words are often used mid play, but they can be utilized here as well. Outside of play if I said my safe word it would mean that I needed a momentary step out of our power exchange and at that point I could explain the the denial had gone of too long for my capabilities and needed to stop. As always, the sub chooses to give the control to their Dominant. The Dominant has that control (within prescribed boundaries) until it is rescinded.❞
This is helpful. Thank you.
LikeDenverKitten, sassygyal305 · 25.11.2024 5:00:32
DenverKitten
DenverKitten ➦DenverKitten quote Westernsky11:❝Spiral66 I am confused on whether I should set some limits. Some resources say that the Dom can set such limits. Others assert that it is a pure negotiation between sub and Dom. I do prefer the latter but not sure how to inquire when messaging someone. So it's good Read more… to know what the sub expects too. ❞
In my dynamic we practice orgasm control. I don’t come, ever, without permission. This includes self play, which im also not allowed to do without permission. We discussed that aspect of our dynamic and mutually agreed on it. So yes, I gave initial consent for him to control, but now he sets the limits. This is also an important part of safe words and with draw of consent. Safe words are often used mid play, but they can be utilized here as well. Outside of play if I said my safe word it would mean that I needed a momentary step out of our power exchange and at that point I could explain the the denial had gone of too long for my capabilities and needed to stop. As always, the sub chooses to give the control to their Dominant. The Dominant has that control (within prescribed boundaries) until it is rescinded.
LikeMistresschr, alpha420fet, Westernsky11 · 22.11.2024 15:58:57
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To have rough, hardcore, hot, sex with a partner who has consented to not orgasm through it. I want a partner who is available and who enjoys pleasing me. I want someone to cuddle with and care for.
Westernsky11
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  • 03.11.2024 4:01:03
  • Male (34)
  • Rushford
  • Single
I'm here looking for a romantic but kinky relationship. I have a detailed idea of what I want. I'm looking for my princess;
a sub whose kinks are orgasm control, begging, and chastity. In O/our dynamic she will wear only dresses and skirts (no male clothing). I'm very loyal, faithful, and Read more… monogamous and seek reciprocity on all these fronts. I will marry my sub before anything sexual will happen. Also looking for something romantic, not just kinky.
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