I'm here looking for a romantic but kinky relationship. I have a detailed idea of what I want. I'm looking for my princess;
a sub whose kinks are orgasm control, begging, and chastity. In O/our dynamic she will wear only dresses and skirts (no male clothing). I'm very loyal, faithful, and monogamous and seek reciprocity on all these fronts. I will marry my sub before anything sexual will happen. Also looking for something romantic, not just kinky.
To have rough, hardcore, hot, sex with a partner who has consented to not orgasm through it. I want a partner who is available and who enjoys pleasing me. I want someone to cuddle with and care for.
This is helpful. Thank you.
For the record I want my partner to cum. It's finding a balance between chastity and orgasms that I need to figure out.
Shaving one's head is an act of sacrifice. It's sexy as hell.
I find desire and willingness to serve the most sexy. Above all else a desire to submit to the arrangement the most attractive trait.
Problem for anyone seeking a female sub is that they get a high volume of requests. How does one stand out and still start out as yourself?
In case anyone is wondering, submissivesguide has an article detailing how a Dom set expectations for his sub. It was a "my way or the highway" kind of deal. Still negotiated upon and consented to. I can find the link if interested. I believe the author was Mrs Darling.
Spiral66 I am confused on whether I should set some limits. Some resources say that the Dom can set such limits. Others assert that it is a pure negotiation between sub and Dom. I do prefer the latter but not sure how to inquire when messaging someone. So it's good to know what the sub expects too.
This was one of the better written, honest explanations I've ever come across