I'm here looking for a romantic but kinky relationship. I have a detailed idea of what I want. I'm looking for my princess;
a sub whose kinks are orgasm control, begging, and chastity. In O/our dynamic she will wear only dresses and skirts (no male clothing). I'm very loyal, faithful, and monogamous and seek reciprocity on all these fronts. I will marry my sub before anything sexual will happen. Also looking for something romantic, not just kinky.
To have rough, hardcore, hot, sex with a partner who has consented to not orgasm through it. I want a partner who is available and who enjoys pleasing me. I want someone to cuddle with and care for.
This is helpful. Thank you.
For the record I want my partner to cum. It's finding a balance between chastity and orgasms that I need to figure out.
Shaving one's head is an act of sacrifice. It's sexy as hell.
I find desire and willingness to serve the most sexy. Above all else a desire to submit to the arrangement the most attractive trait.
Problem for anyone seeking a female sub is that they get a high volume of requests. How does one stand out and still start out as yourself?
In case anyone is wondering, submissivesguide has an article detailing how a Dom set expectations for his sub. It was a "my way or the highway" kind of deal. Still negotiated upon and consented to. I can find the link if interested. I believe the author was Mrs Darling.
Spiral66 I am confused on whether I should set some limits. Some resources say that the Dom can set such limits. Others assert that it is a pure negotiation between sub and Dom. I do prefer the latter but not sure how to inquire when messaging someone. So it's good to know what the sub expects too.