For years, I've enjoyed different meets from vanilla to BDSM with the latter ranging from mild to scary (but fun ).
I’ve tried both sides of the fence, i.e. as a switch and have thoroughly enjoyed exploring my kinks but my experiences have taught me that I am more comfortable in a Dom role and much prefer this side of me.
Good communication is important to me when it comes to a BDSM meet and I don’t mean allowing a sub to top from the bottom but it’s important to me to ***t a picture of desires, likes, dislikes, limits, etc. Trust, honesty and discretion should be a given.
Love meeting new kindred spirits and enjoy chatting about the lifestyle. Its a short life. Make the most of it. Enjoy it!
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