Self Conscious

[RainRavnos]

I am a self conscious person. I grew up with a highly toxic family so even the people who seem to be close to me are pretty hard for me to trust with some things.  Example; It took me 10 years to speak with my husband about the fact that I want to try hypnosis in the bedroom.  Now I can't get the courage to go through with it.  I have tried, but I feel like he is judging me when I bring it up. Like he thinks I am stupid or mental.  (He has done nothing in particular i am just damaged). Has anyone else felt awkward bringing kink into the bedroom with a vanilla?  How did you get over it?  There is so much I want to try.  I feel like hypnosis can help both of us out but I don't know how to approach the issue. 

[PanamaJoe]

Maybe you should try starting at just looking into hypnosis for general things - not just erotica. Like helping you to relax, be more focused, reduce ***, etc. If you're truly interested in it, then maybe you should actually enroll in courses to show him that you are being serious. And then maybe he can join in and study it with you.
Hypnosis isn't a done deal - some people can go under real fast, but others need lots of practice. it all depends. So just 'jumping' into hypnosis in the bedroom may not work. You should really be discussing this with him to make him aware that it is a LONG term project, and if it will ever work, he's going to need to help along the way.

[Scorpio_nl_90]

I have felt awkward bringing hypnokink into the bedroom with a vanilla? But it's all about trust and finding someone you know, you can open up to. Someone that's openminded and non judgemental