How to control the feeling of femdom

[Harry0803]

My friend who is into femdom share that she alway have feeling and burning to have a submissive around day and night. She's worry of uncontroling so is someone experience in this feeling and how to control. Thank you

[ey****]

From what you're saying the scenario is that she feels she wants a sub around constantly - but - knows this is unhealthy.

I'm sure there are many guys fantasise about being the sub in this scenario, but it's not as easy or clear cut as it seems.

I think what would be important is to have a period without any subs around - just to get and keep in the habit of doing everything for herself - just to keep her independent.   After that, perhaps she can start to have a sub or subs around who can help, who can make her life easier - but - that she's more in the practice of being independent so she can cope when they have to leave.

I've heard stories in the past from Dominants who've ended up relying too much on their subs and it's caused problems when they've been let down.