AncientFlame Posted December 23, 2019 Posted December 23, 2019 I just made an account today and I have the basic wants, threesome, being a dominator, really rough sex, etc.. but those are fantasies. I've never done anything out of the norm so its hard to judge what would be best. Overall how would I be able to do these things using this site?
ey**** Posted December 23, 2019 Posted December 23, 2019 I think an important thing to remember is there's no magic button. "I'd like to try rough sex", "I'd like to give being a Dominant a go", "I'd lovvveee a threesome" - that's all great - but just remember that nobody is obliged to do this for/with you - these are your fantasies and, largely, don't benefit others. If your interests are only around sex, this is a more fetish orientated site - obviously there is also a lot of sex talk - but there are literally 100s of other dating sites that are around sex or hook-ups. And, even on those - rule 1 still applies. I think the important thing, especially as you say you're trying to figure what you're into... take your time. If there are new ideas seeping in then absorb some of them. Decide if your interests are more sex based than kink, because subsequent advice would be completely different.
DominatrixSheba Posted December 23, 2019 Posted December 23, 2019 Have a read through the section on different fetishes and see if any particularly catch your interest. If you are leaning towards the dominant side of play then maybe take a look at primal, hunter roles, take-down and capture, rope work, wrestling etc. Also as a dominant it is important that you educate yourself on safe ways to be rough. Learn which parts of the body you can perform impact play on and how to use tools properly. Learn how to restrain someone without damaging them. There is a far bit of information about health and safety on this site too. Basically read everything. Also - watch kinky porn - it’s a great source of inspiration. If you can, get out and meet people on the scene. The best way to do this would be by attending munches. There you will meet other newbies and more experienced players who be an invaluable source of information.
Chelsey Posted December 26, 2019 Posted December 26, 2019 If you're chicken, like me, and dont want anything irl (in real life) you can cyber with a partner or two in chat. I've done that before back in the days of dial-up, until the computer died. I want to take care of a few things, first, here, like age verification, before I start that again.
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