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Keep in mind when messaging me I only want a long term relationship. I want to build an immense amount of trust, respect and communication with a dom who’s willing to put in the work. BDSM to me only works in a long term committed relationship. I can’t do casual, I’ve tried and I never felt comfortable. It felt like I was settling, I know nsa works for others but it makes me feel used and unsafe. I’m a great sub who wants to be a loving *** slut to a nurturing love sadistic pleasure daddy dom who’s willing to be a caregiver. I now am very careful at vetting and I can’t have sex with someone soon, it takes a while to build trust as I need to feel like I’m safe and can go to my dom/partner and communicate without being abandoned or ignored. I like the idea of being a cnc/free use hucow breeding sex slave wife but again that’s with a lot of communication, respect and trust that I’m unable to be able to give easily. I need a lot of reassurance and aftercare is immensely important. I like pleasure doms as they prioritize and take care of your needs and also focus on your experience. I’m pretty hesitant to give people any chances after everything I’ve gone through. Please don’t get upset or spam me if I stop replying/don’t reply I tend to take breaks on social media and if I feel apprehensive it’s not personal I have huge walls up after not having the best experiences. I think I picked the correct category??