Our Code

Respect your community

One of the strengths of the kink community is that it's open and nonjudgmental. Always be friendly and tolerant of other members. It's not cool to threaten, harass, stalk, or abuse others - or express views that may be considered racist, bigoted, or hateful towards another individual, group, culture, race, religion, sexuality - or kink.

If it's your first time in a kinky community, then welcome to your new home! But, we recommend you take it slow. Use our educational resources, take time to read other kinkster's profiles, and get involved in discussions, threads, or chats with whom you find an affinity. We're a friendly bunch.

Follow the law and our values

Your safety is paramount, so we ask you to adhere to the digital SSC (Safe, Sane & Consensual), RACK (Risk Aware Consensual Kink) and PRICK (Personal Responsibility Informed Consensual Kink) philosophy when talking with others.

General legal constraints

• Our kinky online home is not a place to support or praise terrorism, organized crime, hate groups, incest, bestiality, or illegal drug use.


• Even if you feel ready to explore your kinky tendencies at 17, to join our community, you must be legally of age – which means over 18.


• While we acknowledge Financial Domination as a legitimate part of BDSM, unfortunately, for legal reasons, we cannot allow Findommes to operate in our community.

Protect personal privacy

To protect kinksters' data, we don't allow users to publish contact details, e.g. phone numbers, emails, social media handles or Kik addresses. The number one rule of being a kinkster - we don't out each other.

Keep business aside

We don't allow anyone to offer or request money - period. Advertising goods, services, or spamming is not allowed anywhere on the site.

Report fakes and multiple profiles

Having multiple accounts is against our Terms of Use. Don't hesitate to hit the 'Report' function, and we'll fly into action. Reporting an account is anonymous.

If you spot someone who may be violating our guidelines, please help us by using our built-in report feature. It's your community, too!

Acknowledge our warnings

Not following these Community and Content Guidelines will result in a warning. All you need to do is acknowledge it and ensure you stick to these guidelines in the future.

Content Restrictions

Our kinky community isn't a place to support or praise terrorism, organized crime or hate groups. We have zero-tolerance when it comes to sharing sexual content involving minors, bestiality/animal abuse, necrophilia.

Share content you have the rights to

As an authentic community, please only post authentic content (images and text). You should only upload pictures and videos which you have taken or which you were given permission to post.

Post links from trusted sources only

Links to Youtube and Vimeo videos, Wikipedia articles, and Instagram posts are OK. However, no other external links are allowed.

Be responsible for the content you post

In the BDSM Forum, the author assumes all responsibility and liability. Authors must be sure of the accuracy of their posts.