Free BDSM dates with kinksters near you

Hi there, so I'm kinda new to this whole bdsm thing. I've messed around with it on sites like imvu though that was a long time ago. I'm looking for a Dom who can teach me the ropes and be patient with me. I'm looking for a strictly online based relationship.

Things about me:
I love roleplay. If you're interested in rp give me a boop and let's see what we can come up with together!
I love s.
I have a wife who will know when/if I get a Dom but will not be in the relationship.
I'm gender fluid so some times I identify as a male and sometimes as a female.

Things I like:
bdsm (obviously)
Furries
bondage
primal
aftercare
(I'll add more as I think of more)

Things I do not like and will not do:
relocate
give you (I don't have any)
Potty play
genital ***