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Now that I've finally settled into my new life for grad school, I'm looking for someone seriously interested in taking play partner ideals to a more consistent dynamic. What I'm specifically seeking are people who want to grow, build, and evolve together as both a romantic couple, but also within our kink specific goals. If I had to create a preferred tiered list right now of dynamics, as a sub leaning switch, I am highlighting FLR and more femdom-orientated dynamics at the top, but I also am open to more switchy and submissive leaning individuals if the chemistry presents itself.

What I personally believe and bring to the table as a partner are:
Radical honesty
Open and clear communication
A fundamental understanding of my kink goals/limitations/abilities
An open mind and an eagerness to explore
A genuine love of aftercare
Passion that extended outside of the scene into interests/hobbies
Emotional availability
and a genuine want to see both of us pursue shared experiences and mutual successes

If any of this speaks to you and you'd love to either get a better understanding of me, my personality, experiences, or goals for a dynamic, I'd love to hear from you