Who I am: I’m a trans woman who has strange quirks. I am not sexually attracted to anyone, yet I enjoy sex. Specifically, I enjoy it when people use me to satisfy their own desires, and actively dislike it when people worry about my sexual experience. You could say I enjoy it specifically where I’m someone’s slave whose job it is to satisfy sexual desires. I also find that and excitement are basically the same thing in my mind, so if I act scared I might actually be excited for what you have planned.

What I’m looking for: I’m looking for someone who can be rough one moment, and gentle the next. Specifically, I want someone who
s me out of my comfort zone and treats me like I’m nothing more than a toy, yet afterwards is able to cuddle and enjoy some aftercare. Having a safeword would be good, and if I don’t use it, assume that you can continue or even get rougher if you want. Treat me however you want really.

Kinks and interests: I have a variety of things that turn me on, as well as things I’m eager to try.
TPE: I love it when I have little to no control over a situation, leaving me both scared and incredibly excited.
Bondage: While I have no experience with this, I feel being d to be unable to move or cover myself would expound my feelings of and excitement.
Chastity: My sexual experience is none of your concern, maybe to a point where you actively prevent me from gratifying myself.
Sounding: Treating the equipment I was born with as another hole gives me a strange form of gender euphoria, as well as something that I simply enjoy.
Free Use: Part of me being your toy is that you can use me wherever you want, whenever you want. I may have some boundaries on this, but we’ll discuss that at a later time.
Exhibitionism: The of getting caught in a public area or out in the open generally increases my excitement exponentially.
: This is something I’d like to experiment with. I’m not used to being humiliated, but would like to see how I react to it in a sexual setting.
Pet-Play: Another thing I have little to no experience with. All I know is I enjoy having my hair played with, or really any contact with my head, and want to try out the whole pet/master dynamic.
Deep-Throating: The feeling of choking on a rod is just exquisite.
Just about anything else that isn’t involved with my limits: I’m still new to the BDSM scene, and am wanting to further my understanding of myself!

Limits: These are things that turn me off or straight up gross me out.
Mouth being in another mouth: Whether it be kissing or spitting into my mouth, I have never enjoyed having someone else’s saliva in my mouth, and just find it unsanitary. And yes, this is coming from someone who likes genitals in her mouth.
Anything that belongs in the toilet: I do not find any human waste to be even slightly enjoyable.
Extreme : If I end up bleeding a lot, it’s gone too far. A small amount of is ok, but anymore or any other severe means it has gone way too far.
Poor Hygiene: I want to
on a rod, not your scent.

Extra information: In case you couldn’t tell by my writing mannerisms, I have been diagnosed with ASD (Autism Spectrum Disorder). Hopefully it won’t change how you view me, but I felt an explanation was needed for why I wrote what I wrote in the way I wrote it. Also, I take an assortment of medicine every day to fight off depression, meaning I’m not too keen on *** or alcohol. I’m okay with enjoying it occasionally, just don’t want it to react negatively with my medicine. Finally, I am demiromantic, meaning I develop romantic attraction only after spending a significant amount of time around someone. If we end up seeing each other a lot, there is a chance I might become romantically interested in you.

Final Statement: I'm still new to this, and may be slow with a reply, whether it be to nerves or life stuff. Also, I tend to give responses similar to the effort of messages I receive, just in case you're curious as to why I reply with a short message.

PS: I should mention that I may not always be free, given where I am in life. While what I want sexually is nothing short of complete domination, this does come into conflict with the fact that I like having the freedom to do non-sexual things when I want.

BDSM Play Partner21 to 38 years ● 100km around USA Waxhaw

Hi, I am seeking something real and realistic. A relationship, preferably LTR, with a dominant woman where we can share all kink and vanilla interests. In person, face to face. Old school. I am a bit old fashioned, very monogamous, still believe in chivalry.
I am notlookingforsomeonetodospecificthingsto me. I am looking for someone who shares similar interests. I am not interested in changing myself
or who I am, and I am not interested in someone changing who they are, or compromising, for me. I am, however, open minded and am open to exploring and growing. But I won't compromise my hard limits and boundaries, just as I would never expect or ask you to compromise yours. if I haven't mentioned a specific interest of yours, feel free to ask. I am open and honest, feel free to ask me anything.
I am a sub. Not a slave. I am very comfortable with who I am. While I am happy to learn, adapt, and grow. I will not change who I am or what I am looking for.
As already mentioned, I am seeking realistic. I have interests outside of kink. I have dogs. I have a serious soft spot for rescues. If you share this interest, that would be fantastic. Living as a gimp in a cage until needed, is entirely unrealistic.
I am not desperate. I will not chase you if you are not interested, or we are not compatible. I'm looking for a mutually beneficial relationship where we both want the same things, reasonably. I will not try to something that was never going to work.
I am more than happy to answer questions, clarify, or even just exchange ideas. Feel free to contact me, and if it wasn't meant to be, then it wasn't meant to be. But at least we'll know.

I am a masculine and muscular sub male with a special interest in chastity. I don't have any interest in feminization or being a sissy. Not judging others, just being honest. If that is what you seek, I wouldn't be a good match for you. I seek someone who enjoys the control chastity gives as them much as I enjoy being controlled.
I am emotionally and physically strong. I am not submissive because I am weak, I choose submission because I have been drawn to dominant women since as long as I can remember. I am not a beta anything. I am not a sub because I am weak. I choose submission. I do not choose the submissive role with just anyone. I choose submission when I am with a dominant woman who inspires my submission. One who I am comfortable enough with to offer my submission to. Those who know me, but not this side of me would be shocked that I am submissive. So that leads to the next submissive cliche. I am not worthless, useless or have a weak character. Why anyone would want someone who is worthless is beyond me. I'm not a worthless sub, I seek to be a valued sub. My words may say this, but my actions will prove it.
I pursue a healthy lifestyle, am active, am at the gym at least 3 days a week. No
, no smoke at all, rarely drink. I make an effort to keep healthy, but am not fanatical at all.
I am intelligent, creative, witty, and have a great sense of humor.
I am very functional and very sexual, my interest in chastity is control. I do not use chastity to mask any physical issues. I enjoy pleasing my partner and I enjoy long term arousal. And a woman who truly enjoys that control is incredibly exciting.
And being someone who believes in actions over words, chastity is proof that I am 9nly interested in one woman when you have been given my keys. I always hated the infidelity questions if I worked late, of was at the gym longer that normal. Steel chastity, pa piercing, says devoted to one as strongly and confidently as possible.
I am experienced in short term denial as well as long term denial and am ready for whatever you decide or desire. I do really enjoy a sexually selfish dominant woman. The control is very addictive, especially if she enjoys it as much as I do. I feed off of the energy of the one I'm with. If you feel guilty, I feel guilty. If you are excited, I am excited. I want you to be comfortable with your control and enjoy it. So that you find as much fulfillment as I do.

I have several stainless steel devices and am secured with a pa piercing. You hold complete control when you hold the key. And as this is completely consensual, you are free to enjoy and explore your control. And enjoy it. My pleasure is derived from your pleasure. The more you enjoy things, the more I do.
I am a moderate masochist. I have many years of experience in bdsm, and I love bondage and (moderate, but eager to explore) ***. Again, it's the control. But chastity a way to feel bondage and control day and night. Without being a burden on you. Everyday, all day control. It is fun when I forget about it, but am reminded by the unforgiving steel. All day long, at different times, I am reminded of my keyholder. I love that snap back to reality that the control is very real.
With masochism, like chastity, I feed off the energy of the one I'm with. The more you enjoy it, the more I do, and the more my tolerance goes up.
I want to be well rounded. If you feel light and sensual, if you feel hard and heavy, light tease, intense tease, or are not in the mood. My wish is to be available for whatever you need. I seek to improve your life, not complicate it.

I am in Southern California, I have houses in Palm Springs and Big Bear Lake. I can escape the heat and the cold as needed. While I love splitting my time between the desert and the mountains, and would love even more to find someone to share all this with. I would be open to relocation to the right location. Hit me up if you want to know more.

BDSM Play Partner30 to 55 years ● 500km around USA Palm Springs

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