Local to the greater Seattle/Tacoma/Olympia area. No long distance, no exceptions.


Hello little one, I hope this message finds you well. Did you remember to drink water and eat something today? I bet you're sick of fake doms! I am a very experienced Daddy looking to meet a little for fun, hijinks, shenanigans galore, and dare I say it... love.

I very much enjoy all of the fun littlespace things like tea parties with stuffies, giving you bubble baths and brushing your hair, holding hands in public, going to the mall and thrifting, picnics in the park, road trips to No Tell motels, vacations at the beach, watching you color, reading to you, curling up and watching your favorite movies on repeat, bicycle rides, cooking yummy and healthy foods for you, and generally being an all-around provider and nurturer. And yes, of course, plenty of other things as well! I also enjoy helping people with the more mundane aspects of living and navigating through life.

I have been a Daddy for longer than I can remember, which is a very long time indeed. It is not a mask or a kink for me, but a true identity. I am very open with this, what you see is what you get. As a real life medical professional and educator (at least at one point) I am very mental and physical health aware. I am calm and patient and I do not get mad or raise my voice. I believe strongly in good, clear communication. I am not a fan of rules, preferring principles which can be applied to all situations over a long list of things to remember. I am definitely more on the low protocol side of things, I do not stand on ceremony. That being said respect is very important to me - and that goes both ways. I lead with kindness and believe that trust is earned. I will never ask you for nudes but I will ask if you have been taking care of yourself. I like to exercise and am in good shape, some people even consider me handsome. I don't have any particular preferences as to what I am looking for in a little, I have dated allll sorts of people: large and small, short and tall, and all colors of the rainbow. That being said I will not respond to people who do not have clear photos.

My bestie recently wrote this review for me:

"I would say to take you at your word. You don't say anything you don't want to, and what you do say, you mean. You're far too old too play games that aren't mutually agreed on- you're playful and you tease, but you're never fake about your feelings or intentions.

"I'd also say, as someone who didn't fully appreciate it at the time, that you're big on self improvement and that you advise and guide if your person is looking for that, but at the end of the day you won't do it for them- you're a fabulous support for self actualization."

That all sounds about right! As you can see from my friend's candid review my actions match my words and that is a non-negotiable for me, as I would hope it is for you as well.

My profile is expansive. Please make an effort to read it before messaging me. There should be lots of things in there to talk about and it would please me greatly to know that you took the time and effort. It's okay if you're shy, but I still need to know that you are out there.

I very much look forward to hearing from you!

XOXO

BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 35 years ● 240km around USA Edgewood

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A Master/Mistress is a specific kind of Dominant. They are more likely to take on a 24/7 relationship with their submissive/slave and control all aspects of their sub’s life. There may be exceptions, for example when the partners are at work, otherwise a Master/Mistress is in control all of the time. They will train their slaves to serve them in the way they enjoy. This will include domestic chores and service as well as sexual and kink aspects of their lives. Some expect their slaves to ask permission to eat, use the bathroom and other mundane acts, taking control of everything their submissive does. Of course, all this is pre-agreed. It may all be written down in a formal contract or may have been discussed in advance. There will be ways for the slave to express discomfort and to say no when they don’t want to do something. This could be in the forum of a safeword or something else that is pre-agreed. Even though the relationship seems very one-sided, it is consensual. A Master/Mistress has their slave’s well-being at heart and will never make them do anything that is unsafe or they won’t like, that is part of the nature of the trust and control between them.
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