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Leatherrubberswitch
Hetero flexible switch

Out of a straight marriage a few years ago and spent my fetish life on the gay scene as a switch but always wanted but never did physically explore fetish/kink with the opposite sex.

Generally more Dom recently but love subbing and always wanted to explore subbing for a Domme.

Message if interested, I look scary in some of my pics but I would say down to earth and relatively normal.
BDSM Play Partner ● 40 to 60 years ● 25km around UK London
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MasterSJ
Toronto/GTA

Any ladies looking to be dominated and into rough play/being punished , message me 😘
BDSM Play Partner ● 25km around Canada Mississauga
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smallbutprecise
Help me end my dry spell

Looking for a woman to keep my hands warm with their neck. A woman to let me take of them on a trip out to the middle of nowhere and get into some CNC situations and be okay with me breeding them over and over.

My back would be a great place to rest your calves also I'm a very caring Dom. 😘
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 50 years ● 225km around USA Hercules
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kipp1225
Dom looking for sub

Dom looking for a good little girl to have some fun with
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 50 years ● 160km around USA Mansfield
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Imdrakexo
Can you handle it?

I'm a pleasure dom looking for a brat and/or sub to hold down and make her cum more times than she thinks her body can. Send me a message or add me on sc - imdrake

looking forward to hearing from you.
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 460km around USA Fenton
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Leondavey
Petite sub/slave wanted

I need a kinky sub who wants to be intensely pleasured and dominated. Hours of clit stimulation, breast and nipple play. Hair pulling, mutual choking, spanking and most of all, Leg quivering, body shaking squirting orgasms
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 49 years ● 490km around Australia Tocumwal
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atlfreak
Looking to find a girl that can dominate my girl a

Looking for a third (female) who can dominate my girl and make her watch you pleasure me. Basically a cuckqueen situation. Also looking to be cuckolded myself, it’s something that I’ve wanted to try so if interested hit me up 🤙🏽
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 25km around USA Norcross
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sacramento56426
Some experience/ need more

And 40-65 yo ladies living in Sacramento California available to teach male sub the ropes. Am willing to take and attend Fet courses on training. Let me know I’m available on weekends.
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 25km around USA Sacramento
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Jillian2024
Looking to gain experience from the experienceed

Anyone open to show me the tops. No pun intended
BDSM Play Partner ● 25 to 53 years ● 80km around USA North Highlands
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DomDesi
Seeking sub

Dom female, looking for a female playmate/ sub. Come play with me 😈
BDSM Play Partner ● 27 to 44 years ● 210km around USA Annapolis
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lexi_c
Feminine friends?

I'm looking for local female or tgirl friends currently so message me if u wanna mwah
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 60 years ● 75km around USA Una
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VixenJazz
Untamed Urges & Desires

Looking for someone to chill and have a good time with. If the vibe is right maybe will lead to more ;) I’m looking to meet someone who shares my desires and who I can connect with on a “deeper “ level. I believe in mutual fulfillment. I’m open to exploring and sharing experiences that bring us both satisfying pleasure.
BDSM Play Partner ● 44 to 46 years ● 50km around USA San Jose
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CUCKOLD_706
Looking for someone going to Tokyo Valentino. Rom

I’m wanting to experience the T.V. club on Cheshire Bridge rd. for the first time. I’d like to catch a lift from Rome to the club and have a knowledge guide.
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 25km around USA Rome
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Snailor667
Been out of the game and looking for someone enjoy

Be kind, willing, and friendly. We gotta be friends if we're gonna trust each other. Please be ok with some experimentation, I'm still exploring what I like.
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 160km around USA New Tripoli
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novahatesyoass
Well Hello There

I want to meet a hard dom that can put up with my bratty ass or a soft dom that’ll let me get away with it.
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 23 years ● 25km around USA Portsmouth
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vancouver329531
Daddy(not sugar) looking for his little girl

Caring nurturing quick to praise but can be strict when needed. Looking for my little girl who loves to be orally pleased cared for and encouraged to be their best and complete little girl they can be.
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 42 years ● 25km around Canada Vancouver
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jay-5773
Looking for someone to tie me up.

I am looking for someone in southern tasmania who could tie me up and gag me in different ways. First time with it but want to see what it is like to be tied up and gagged in different ways.
BDSM Play Partner ● 19 to 35 years ● 5km around Australia Hobart
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columbia478
Service sub/slave male in need of kinky Domme

Hoping to find a stern Domme who knows exactly what she wants and is looking for a sub male to provide it. I am very kink friendly and eager to please.
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 145km around USA Columbia
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shelby189099
Looking for fun

Looking for fun
BDSM Play Partner ● 27 to 27 years ● 25km around USA Shelby
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Thebigsub
Looking for training

I'm a pet sub looking for intense training
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 50 years ● 325km around UK Carlisle
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Thebigsub
I'm new

I'm new looking for an owner or dom to dominate me
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 50 years ● Clubf Swingers Club in UK Chester-le-Street
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anchorage378124
looking for a ANR relationship

im a transgender woman. im 36 looking for an ANR relationship .im in a polyamorous relationship. i have 2 partners looking for friendship , cuddles , touch, and breastfeeding. It's ok if you're pregnant and i dont care about weight
BDSM Play Partner ● 36 to 80 years ● 25km around USA Anchorage
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FelixG316
Hello there!

Im looking for some fun minded individuals (or couples) who can put me into my place by tying me up and having fun with me!
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 25 years ● 500km around Canada Happy Valley-Goose Bay
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jellybean33
Looking for a dominant

Looking for a dominant To explore my submissive side. Age doesn’t matter.
BDSM Play Partner ● 24 to 50 years ● 25km around USA Racine
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