So I'm accustom to long distance situations, just lettiy you know up front. I have plenty of experience in such long distance Dom "work" so to speak, bug haven't had a good slave/sub in quite some time... I'm pretty open, I don't have high demands of expectations. I just desire someone who submits fully to me, will generally do whatever I want within our collective limitations. I've tried fetster, but after a shit load of complaints to them due to all the damn bots and lifeless retards spamming me they deleted my account... So I guess I was right: the f***ers were getting paid to allow the boys on there. >_> Don't ask... They got a bit of a bitching rant about all the spammers hitting up my messages. So what exactly am I looking for? Preferably 21 - 30 years old, either no experience of very experienced, either is fine... I'm not picky in appearance, but I don't find larger sizes (weight) attractive... That said, large breasts? Believe it or not, I like small breasts... I don't know why, it's just... More comfortable? I don't know... Admittedly I also like either shirt haired girls or very long haired. XD Ah, yeah, I'm an odd ball... I'd love a slave/sub I share interests with... You know... So it's not just a constant sexual relationship. Why exactly am I a Master/Dom? A lot of lying girls that lied to make me interested in them... And more to KEEP me interested in... Plus I've had a lot in my life not go how I needed if wanted it to go... I just want some damn control over at least one fucking aspect of my life, without being lied to... Desperate girls are NOT hot... Their pathetic... Annoying... And not worth the time until they pull themselves together and are no longer desperate. I got fed up with all of that fucking years ago. Anyway, check my profile. My Kik name is there. If you message me, which I doubt anyone will, please let me know in the first message you got my Kik name off of here so I know you're not a spam bot...

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