I identify as a Pleasure sadist but also a dominant who has multiple facets. I am primal yet sensual, Sadistic yet nurturing like a Daddy .
I am straight.
I am looking for a submissive.with whom I connect , whose needs, wants match mine .
It is the chemistry that will have a bearing on how we play and progress forward.
I have found out that communication , consent and respect are important in establishing any kind of rapport or dynamic.

My kinky experience and skills:

  • Various forms of sensory experience to include either lighter forms of touch, or impact (stingy or thuddy, often complementary), with or without some forms of sensory deprivation such as blindfolds.

  • Sensual encounters: massages for instance

  • Restraint in various forms,

  • Impact only sessions,

  • Orgasm/squirt sessions,

  • Teasing and edging to include a variety of depths/s***ds/angles,

  • Yoni massage

    I am an adept of RACK, consent, respect and communication.

    I am also very comfortable in cuckold/Hotwife dynamic. I love to create an atmosphere, a setting where all are happy to be involved or not in case of the cuck.

    If any of the above resonates with you, please get in touch! Who knows, we may be a match.
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    Feel free to ask for more details if any of the above resonates with what you're looking for.

    In the vanilla world, I am educated, interested in movies, reading, current affairs, History, music, sports , cooking , Scandinavian TV Series or Nordic Noir.

    I am unable to see the pics of those who sent me a spank or a flirt. if interested just drop me aline and we will take it from there.
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BDSM Play Partner25 to 60 years ● 100km around UK Stoke-on-Trent

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