Hey there! I’m a 23-year-old queer/bisexual male in European time zones, ready to fully embrace my submissive, airheaded (himbo) self. A bit chubby, very playful, and always eager to follow instructions with a big, silly smile. I ride motorcycles, vibe with 70s-80s rocker aesthetics, and have a softer, more feminine side. I’m quite the intellectual, but I love being d into acting like a delightful airhead. Fashion, submission, and dynamic control? That’s my world. 🤘🏍️

What I Offer:

A devoted, obedient doll who dreams of being fully controlled—especially when it comes to my style. I want my dominant to have total control over my current wardrobe and future purchases, guiding me to wear what you think suits me best. The idea of having no choice in what I wear is a fantasy that would make me feel truly owned and under your guidance.
I’m eager to follow a set of personalized rules that fit our dynamic, inspired by what I’ve seen on FetLife but tailored to our fetishes. For example, having pockets sewn shut or removed from my clothes, forcing me to carry a bag or purse? That’s oddly hot to me. 😳💕 I’m also totally down for costume play—dressing up in anything from cute outfits to something that might humiliate me is all part of the fun!
Open to exploring economic control when our relationship deepens. Giving up control of my finances would be such an adventure and a new level of trust! 💸💕

What I’m Looking For:

A dominant who knows how to shape a submissive himbo’s style and mind. Someone who enjoys full control over my fashion, from rocker and biker looks to forcing me into more embarrassing, feminine outfits. Whatever you decide, I’ll be yours to guide.
You’ll create the rules and decide what I wear—whether it’s a leather jacket and band tee or something way out of my comfort zone. I trust you to push my boundaries and explore both masculine and feminine sides of me. 💄👖
Someone creative who loves giving rewards, punishments, and maybe even locking me into specific outfits with a timelock for added
. I’ll follow all your rules, especially when it makes me squirm with delight and embarrassment, enjoying the playful that comes with my himbo persona.

Interests:

Fashion control, dollification, outfit restrictions, controlled
, economic control, rocker/biker aesthetics, costume play, and a mix of masculine and feminine submission.

Let’s explore this dynamic together! I’m looking for an online relationship, so whether you’re dressing me up in something cute and embarrassing or deciding how I spend my ***, I’ll be completely under your control—ready to follow your every order with a goofy grin.

BDSM Play Partner18 to 50 years Denmark Nykøbing

Hello! I'm 28 CIS F and I'm looking to find my other half. As for a bit about me -

  • I am not interested in men at all.

    I am...

  • Monogamous
  • Lesbian
  • service sub (The thing that brings me the most joy is making my partner happy and I will always put her pleasure and needs above my own)
  • inexperienced with kink but I know what I want. I am very eager to explore more and I’m very open-minded
  • I am successful in my career and have lots of responsibility and people to manage at work. I would love to have someone that I am comfortable enough with to take the reigns from me. Make decisions for me, and let me please and spoil them.
  • Hopeful Romantic (seriously, I will send you wax-stamped love letters and set up picnics underneath the stars)
  • 5ft 7in, dirty blonde/midlength hair, not skinny but I do go to the gym almost every day and I am athletic
  • Gold star lesbian
  • Graphic Designer (you'll get lots of silly drawings from me)
  • Marvel Nerd

    I also enjoy things like kayaking, camping, hiking, skiing/snowboarding, mini golf, art/*ting, video games, museums. I am from NY, but I'm not sold on staying in the US my whole life. I am very open to making connections abroad.

    What I'm looking for...**

  • Age 23-35 ^((ish))
  • Someone who can be caring and soft but also strict and mean when needed. I enjoy praise but also love the it when a woman can take control and make decisions for me.
  • I mostly thrive on genuine connection, I love deep talks about life and getting to know other people emotionally.
  • I’m fine with online but I would eventually like it to lead to IRL. I’d love to find someone experienced that can teach me and mold me into their perfect submissive.
  • afab
  • It would be nice to have some interests in common, but I would also be very interested to learn about new things and what you enjoy as well.
  • I do really love foreign accents, so if you have one it's an instant win.

    Kinks are not limited to but include: MDLG, hypnosis, praise, intox, breath play, somno, cnc, orgasm control, corruption, TPE (kinda)

    Limits: Bathroom play, **, gore, permanent markings, known public play, men, feminization, illegal activities.

    Anygays- I'm willing to share pics/verify and I expect you to as well. If you reach out please say more than just "hey". Some interests will be nice too. If this post doesn't interest you, I wish you all the best in your search, LET'S GO LESBIANS!
    (+bi girlies)*

BDSM Play Partner18 to 80 years ● 25km around USA Albany

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