I have a bet going with my social media followers. I maintain that kinky guys are the absolute worst, the bottom of the barrel, when it comes to online dating; that they don't read the profiles, they can't follow simple instructions, they can't help themselves and absolutely HAVE to comment even when not invited, and they violate boundaries left and right by not only refusing to treat people as they ask to be treated, but by doing exactly the things people say that they don't want to have done.

All of which, of course, is the exact opposite of what BDSM stands for. Which means that, if I am correct, most kinky men should not be trusted to be play partners.

I bet my social media followers that 90% or more of the messages I get here will be from men who claim to want some kind of BDSM in their relationships but can't or won't do even the bare minimum required for a BDSM relationship - listen to the prospective partner and respect boundaries - and who will come along and kinksplain #NotAllKinksters to me.

You can help me win this bet by being one of those assholes and contact me without reading the profile or by doing the opposite of what I talk about in my profile or by explaining to me in great detail how Not All Kinksters are like this, or you can prove me wrong by either a) not contacting me at all if you can't or won't do it appropriately or b) being a decent human being when you send your first message.

So, which will it be?

Easiest fucking bet ever. All it requires is anyone not shutting the fuck up and moving along.

https :// pics. me. me/pokemina-im-going-to-make-a-youtube-video-entitled-shit-50411142 .png

I'm going to make a youtube video entitled

"Shit ALL men say"

and it will consist only of the phrase ""but not all men say that-!!"

And then I'll wait for men to stare at their keyboards in utter distress as they contemplate the paradox of their intense desire and desperation to inform me that not all men say that.

I will break them.

[image of PowerPuff Girls villains HIM and Mojo Jojo crying with pride and happiness saying]
-That's the evilist thing I can imagine.

BDSM Play Partner38 to 50 years ● 50km around USA, Winter Haven 2 years ago
Fun
BDSM Play Partner19 to 37 years ● 25km around New Zealand, Remuera 3 years ago

Threads and discussions that include: slave girl

  • How do I approach having a girl lick my ass

    I'm an athletic man with a nice ass (Ive been told) but never had my ass eaten out. I'd really like the right girl to do it, bit I always am too embarrassed to ask. I'm also concerned about being hair ...
  • Dom, Sub, Caretaker, Pet, and a Slave

    I lean towards all of these categories. Is there a better definition for someone like this? Is this normal? Anyone else out there have the same experience? ...
  • The clock on the wall ticked loudly, each second dragging out like an eternity. Rizi sat at his desk, fingers drumming impatiently on the polished wood surface. His eyes flicked to the clock again, th ...
  • Similar to slave girl

    Slaves are submissives who totally give all control over to their Master/Mistress. The main difference from other submissives is that they hand over control of all their life, 24/7 to their top. There can be pre-agreed exceptions to this rule. For the purposes of work for example but by vast majority a slave hands over all decision making to their Dom. BDSM slaves are happiest when serving a Dominant. They tend to not have limits with their Master/Mistress. This is because their dynamic is very close. The Dominant knows his/her slaves limits and keeps to them. This is a very unique relationship and is one to build up to. Slaves start out as submissives first and after time become a slave. Slaves, even more so than submissives, tend to wear some kind of symbol of their BDSM slave status. This can be a collar or a piece of jewellery that symbolises their belonging to their Dominant. Slaves give complete trust to their Dominant, freeing their minds from worry and responsibility. It is a very unique roll and one that only certain submissives can take on.
    A baby Girl / baby Boy is often known by the gender neutral term, little. A little is a type of submissive who embraces a childlike state. This can manifest in many ways including curiosity, a love of play, carrying a soft toy and dressing in clothes associated with being young. They can also use items such as pacifiers and diapers, but these are optional. Not all littles see themselves as being that young. Littles are submissives who need a great deal of nurturing and care from the Dominant who looks after them. Their Dominants are usually known as Daddies and Mummies. Littles will engage in activities which are associated with childhood. These include colouring in colouring books, doodling, blowing bubbles, playing games like tag or snakes and ladders. On the face of things, it seems a little takes more looking after than other submissives. It may be that they expect and need more support, time and nurture but their submission runs deep. Little’s relationships to their Daddy Dom or Mommy Domme are very intense. There is a great dedication from the little to their Dominants. They have a lot of submission to give. Littles can be bratty especially if this is a way they can earn fun punishments that they want. Littles, like all submissives, crave control. They may want very precise rules and will go out of their way to push the boundaries and test their Dominants. Littles often enjoy mixing BDSM gear such as cuffs, ropes and collars with pretty lacy dresses or dungarees. The contrast of innocent and not so innocent makes them happy.

    Personal ads