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Hi! My life partner in both life and kink recently passed away after 30 years together. As such, I am hoping to expand my horizons and circumstances by reconnecting with the greater kink community. While I am considering exploring a LTR, I am at present in no hurry to commit to anything permanent as I am still adjusting to this.

I am primarily seeking a situation involving a sub or slave female that might lead to a LTR. I can host for mild to wild BDSM play; prefer subsemphasized text with masochistic tendencies and desires. SORRY NO MALES!

Me? I'm a 63 y/o widowed Dom WM with a dry but dark sense of humor; 6'3" 195 HWP, professional, pierced nipples. I'm presently recovering from some health issues but am moving along very well and am very much a fighter; not a quitter! College educated and although mature, very in touch with my inner child. I can transition from NPR to Bob’s Burgers without flinching nor being embarrassed about doing so. Music is a vital part of who I am as is humor. The ability to maintain a sense of humor without arrogance when it comes to BDSM play is, in my eyes, vitally important.

I am not looking for someone squeamish but someone adventurous, who is intrigued by spankings/paddles, restraints and nipple clamps, wax play, blindfolds, latex, leather, tight restraints, watching/ voyeurism, large objects and. . .?

I switch on occasion if the chemistry is right and am open to CBT, pegging, sounding, and pretty much many of the other interests I’ve already outlined. In other words, I can take in what I dish out...

I have a wide variety of gear to add to the total ambience… Anything from mild to wild, as I do have a bit of a sadistic streak…

You? ...are sane and secure, clean and discrete. Enjoy some curves, but sorry- no extreme overweight. Prefer mature but will consider any age or race with a willingness to test your limits and maintain creativity with a certain degree of humor and humility. LOVE tats, piercings, ebony, goth and...

Limits will be respected but tested; also receptive to sexting. Because of scam efforts and ulterior motives of some responses I have received, I actually prefer meeting at a neutral location first in the general Milwaukee area although, yes, I can host...

Desires and Fantasies
My partner and I have explored plenty of things in the past including play dungeons, pet play, role playing etc. I've already explored plenty of fantasies, so just let me know what yours might be...

If you are looking for pay for play or if you’re a “findom” seeking paypigs, move on… I have better things to spend my on including partners that are actually interested in something more LT and stable, and who actually play instead of yanking chains (rhetorically rather than literally)... If you’re looking for someone to send you or gift cards sight unseen, well… while I appreciate you’re thinking that I was born yesterday, I wasn’t…

I am still fairly new to the bdsm community, I have been educating myself for a little over a year and would like to find a partner to start exploring/training with. Preferably ldr but possibly open to in person and willing to go on a few "dates" and talk first to discuss our interests (kinky and non kinky).

Hello, m24uk switch i am new into bdsm community and wants to try submissive role..any mistress around me can dm me

Really need to get back into the bdsm community and being around like minded people.

BBW in Louisville, KY. I'm total newbie & currently exploring BDSM. Looking for a Daddy Dom who needs his Little Girl. You must be PATIENT, confident, in control of your feelings, attentive and willing to gently but firmly guide me into this community. I will NOT be a slave. I don't need to be rescued. I want to feel protected!

Anyone to b hat with in the local community with a similar interests

Hello, I have been into BDSM for awhile, and I just want to meet people and start exploring. I probably won't fuck you, im more interested in munches and involving myself in the community right now.

Looking to share fantasies and gain experience with in the community

I am still pretty new to the whole Sub and Dom world. At least, I guess letting myself open up to it more. I am listening to more and more Dom ASMR's and I find myself being able to cum so hard just by listening to these. It excites me to think about being with a Dom. As I am learning more about this community, I have learned I am more into softer doms.

I've decided I don't want anything serious right now, but just a bit of fun.

I’d love to chat with someone and learn more about kink. I’m super super new and have no friends in the kink community.

Someone willing to experiment, and learn new things in the community. I’ve been trying to get into bdsm more, though Alaska’s community is fairly small. If anyone in Alaska, preferably Fairbanks wants to look more into this lifestyle hit me up.

Very curious about all kinds of fetishes, so I have come here to see if I can find my true kinks. Not entirely sure what I'm looking for as yet so hopefully this site and community can help me experiment and find my true kinky self? But I’m very keen on exploring mutual masturbation and CFNM… Preference is for w/e older men, around 60 for fun.

• Curious about this community, eager to meet people and share experiences. Giving a try. I amateur photographer. If you need some photos, ket me know. Willing to experiment dom/sub and bsdm. Life is one and should be lived at fullest every single day.

Oklahoma Dom but respectful in a committed monogamous non Fet-life relationship for over 4 years have been a member of this community for a while longer. I like role play and I'm very dominant in every aspect of my life. Will gladly talk and help with dating or advice. I'm a very laid back friendly person.

Im looking to be part of the community, to share my knowledge and continue to learn to be a better Dom.

Im a primal hunter who likes other hunters (Dommes)
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Drawn to DD/lg dynamics

Im not looking for hook ups but i am human and do have needs.