Seeking service oriented subs for real life service in Pickering Ontario. Also looking for other service sub in Mérida Mexico during winter. . No cybersex. No meet and beat. Long term service only. Suitable for those that feel fulfilled giving service without measuring what they will get in return.

If you are under 30, you are too young to be my pet. If you see me at an event, come chat instead.

As I seek non sexual interactions with my sub, I am open to male and female subs. Its the control and service that excites me... NOT what is between your legs.

If I get distracted, please do not take offense and just keep messaging to keep my attention. I never try to ghost. If I am not interested, I will tell you directly. So it's your responsibility to keep in contact. With multiple businesses and in and out of the country, things get hectic lol

In Canada I require my pet to serve in my home, warehouse, computer work, etc. Please read my profile. Available hours are critical. Afternoons only, ex: noon to 5. Suits shift worker, self employed or retired. Typically from noon to five during the week...1 to 2 times a month.

In Mexico, Seeking an English speaking service oriented sub.
Helping me with my Spanish, serving as a translator, shopping, helping me with whatever service I require. In my garden, in my home, foot massages, etc.

I move slowly, I love to train and keep a sub for years. Not into Mommy or AB play.

For my dedicated personal subs, this is not meet and beat. We spend multiple dates getting to know each other BEFORE any play or service occurs. I will use your personal talents and knowledge to better my life.
I enjoy CFnm, collar/leash, sensual to medium intensity bdsm play. Optional interests are violet wand, chastity and going to local events... those we can discuss and compromise.
Not looking for sexual service, long distance or sexting.
I am married to a kinkster and I am looking for a casual play partner only.
Are you seeking a long term play partner, submission to a mature realistic Domme, friendship and serving a Mistress... Message me.

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