Kinky Date21 to 40 years ● 50km around USA Santa Clara

Ok so here goes…, I am 46 and searching for my soulmate.

I like to wear the trousers and control things generally, I like the kind of D/s slave setup but I do not want to be a mistress that just plays with you and fulfills all your desires, i have desires too,

I want to be surprised sometimes and treated like a goddess a princess. Loyalty and honesty are extremely important to me.

I want a man who knows he’s a man, a man who loves and appreciates women and intimacy and love and kink, a man who appreciates women in lace and in fetish clothing or even in comfy clothes, I am NOT into sissies or Crossdressers and I’m not interested in tying men up and doing them with strap ons, or keeping them in chastity. I want a man who tries to please me and gets joy from doing so.

So what am I interested in? A 24/7 TPE relationship where I actually come first, not a situation where it is a guise to only get your secret kinks.

I am a natural leader and control freak, I love men looking like men and acting like men but under my authority, I am kinky but I also want love, deep conversation and to build something so special. I like to take care of and to be taken care of, I suppose my ideal relationship would be what would look like a normal relationship from the outside but i have D/s control, I love the idea of moulding a man to be everything I desire, choosing his clothes, hairstyle and free time.
I love the idea of creating asthetics and atmosphere to explore dynamics on all levels. I want to be able to experiment with my submissive switch side but whilst knowing I can return to my natural tendency of dominance.

I am looking for someone who is more dominant in life but can be submissive to me in a non pathetic way, honest, loyal, fun and intelligent, emotional, empathic and sentimental, has a sense of humour, someone who is patient and kind and calm but can be a little cheeky or play a little bit hard to get or even be a bit dominant sometimes and not just be weak.Yes I guess I’m looking for a submissive Dominant, where the submission and dominance have to be in the right places. I love to chase, i love tease and build up especially mentally.

I have had experiences with men who are liars or destructive and I do not want that in my life, I need someone who values trust and honesty, who can be strong and there for me when I need it. I can be a bit dramatic and need patience, if I get it then I have a lot to offer. Deep conversation is very important to me I am pretty dark minded but I am also very caring and loving and playful and creative. I love being a woman but I am also quite boyish in my interests.

I love gaming, god of war, resident evil, Elden ring, assassins creed, magic the gathering, playing pool, a few beers, occasionally cocktails. I love poker and metal detecting, binge watching tv series and reality tv, I Love eating out and shopping, wandering around markets, escape rooms, BBQ’s jacuzzis, creating themed parties, I love thinking outside of the box, coming up with grand ideas. I love celebrations, like birthdays or summer parties. I love a good massage and I love entrepreneurship. People who are loyal to me I will treat them well and go above and beyond for.

I currently live with 2 D/s slaves/friends. They are platonic relationships. So whoever my soulmate is must be ok with that poly setup and a rather unusual household.

I also have adult sons who I run a property development company with, my goal is to make millions and to be able to create a cool life filled with fun, I want to buy land, a big house, would love to run fetish clubs,and find someone to grow old with when our bodies are too old. Ideally I’m looking for someone involved in the building trade who could come onboard our company.

I am not religious, I edge more towards pagan beliefs, I am very interested in quantum physics and the idea consciousness creates your reality and and I am a bit of a conspiracy theorist.

I love all different types of music, imagine dragons, the weeknd, 80’s, billie eilish, avici, mood and atmospheric

Tv I like Vikings, Dexter, breaking bad, dragons den, apprentice masterchef, survivor, crime, downtown abbey, Spartacus, Clarksons farm, basically decent reality tv and series are my thing, a good movie if it’s well produced.

My negative qualities, I smoke, talk a lot, I’m very possessive. I can sometimes be a bit narcissistic, If you embark on a relationship with me you enter my world and sign up for supporting my life and goals.

My kink interests are :

Roleplay, (I have a big thing for roleplay) Slavery, TPE, collars, D/s control, choosing clothing, monitoring activity, eye restrictions, financial control, being served,, medical, asylum, age play, pet play, kidnap, era play like Victorian schools or slavery or Roman slavery
Flogging, queening, foot worship, tease, cages, latex, straitjackets, there is a lot more I’d do and some more private things but those are my main interests.

If you like my profile, drop me a message and tell me a bit about yourself.

Age
Location
Current living and work situation, skills, any commitments etc.
And more about you in general.

Short messages like hi will be ignored, as will crude or rude messages….yes I know I want a lot, as least I’m honest, if you don’t like my profile you can ignore it. :)

BDSM/Fetish Family25 to 48 years ● 25km around UK Plymouth

Hey there! Obviously the title is serious, but that is because I want to be clear with my intentions: to never have to post again. That said, I'm not expecting to jump into anything right away but to simply start out chatting and see if we match and there is a connection yada yada. :) With that cleared up…

Here's me:

I'm a 26 yo Norwegian with lots of love but sadly no-one to give it to (yet). Physically I’m a 6’3" (190 cm) tall, pale, blue-eyed blonde with fairly regular looks. Personality-wise I’m soft, patient, loyal and supporting. I am a Christian and the faith is important to me, but I also lean very much submissive and find myself craving a dominant partner. As such, I’m looking for someone who likes me values both. I know it’s a rare combination, but being an outlier I guess I'm simply just looking for another?

One other thing is, I'm looking for someone who (like me) doesn't drink or do . It's just something I've never been a fan of or been comfortable with. I’m looking for monogamous and long term obviously. This is important to me.

I'm a person who connects with few, but connects deep with those I do. Stable, loyal, honest, in offer of support and I’ll happily hear your rants. I’m extremely loving and caring to those close to me although I do take a while to open up. However I will tell you my actual thoughts on your dress. :P

I'm the blushy, cute, and cuddly nerdy type… with a dark edge. I have a pretty chill approach to life. I’d describe myself as a quirky introvert, slightly nerdy and into books, board games, puzzles, video games, fantasy and so on. I'm also down for outdoors and playing sports, and like to be active every now and then and play disc golf amongst others. I like to joke, both innocently and more edgy, and it's simply part of the package with me. A note is that with the exception of the gender roles, I do have fairly traditional Christian beliefs.

Our Relationship:

While sharing common values and interests never hurt the most important thing is that we get along. It'd be great if you also have a dominant streak, so bonus points if you like to take a little charge. And if you love cuddles (I'm fan of the sappy stuff, too). I’d describe my ideal Domme as a Mommydomme with a mean streak, but find that kink comes second, and that roles will develop naturally based on how we get along and how we compliment each other. My dream is for you to be fine with and even encourage my softer traits and allow me to be my warm, supportive, clumsy and cuddly, little softie self, rather than an alpha-type handyman. And for you to perhaps be more of the decisive type? Kink-wise Im into a wide array of things from pet play, edging and
to heavier ones and very open minded in terms of exploring new things. I also really enjoy the psychological aspect of Femdom and playing around with that.

I'm happy to verify by exchanging pictures once you get in touch and hopefully you are too. Bonus if you send one in your initial message. Even though chemistry is a big part there is no denying that physical attraction still is a factor!

Health:

I didn't initially include this in my post as I feel an obligation to include it so as to not lead someone on falsely.

I’ve been living with Conversion Disorder since I was 18. Briefly explained: my nervous system is a little off, and occasionally has physical reactions from stress and mental strain. This means I lead a semi-calm lifestyle. I still have light symptoms, but they are much rarer and milder than they used to be. I am soft, but I am strong mentally.

I own my own home and I am doing okay financially. I’m completing my master’s degree to achieve my goal of becoming a part-time teacher. My health may prevent me from working full-time, but I will most likely be able to have a part-time job with partial Disability support. I am ready to be your partner and start a family.

Our Future:

I'm currently bound by my nation's borders for another year or two. Although I would highly prefer settling here, I want to make you happy, and so I am open to consider most English-speaking countries (especially the US) in the future should we find each other. As for visiting, we have way more flexibility, and I'm more than happy to make a trip (or more) to meet up as I am rather serious about this.

Anyway, if you've made it this far and you think we could hit it off, be sure to send me a message. I would love it if you also added a paragraph or two about yourself so I can learn about you.

Can't wait to get to know you!

Remember I don't bite, I cuddle. DC dragedreperen

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BDSM/Fetish Family25 to 45 years ● 150km around Canada Cornwall

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