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I’m new to this sort of thing and I would love to find the right person to guide me but control me. I have found I am aroused by this kink and would love to get more experience with it.

Hello all. Brand new to the BDSM and interested in trying it out. I would say im switch but since im an introvert and kind of shy/quiet i might tend to lean sub. Although dom sounds fun to. Want to explore and find out what is for me. Willing to help other explore as well

Trying to find someone worth talking to on here

I have always wanted to go to a right proper bachanal, and am looking for a sexy partner that I vibe with to be my plus one, and lady passport magic to get through the front door of some upcoming orgies. I promise to run interference, and point in our exploration of group activity.

I’m up to date, and clean on my STI testing, a wild ride in the sack, and top tier funny.

Although my tastes run twisted, you don’t have to sample all of the goods, I’m just ready for some group fun.

I’m looking for a woman, either a creator or somebody willing to be a part of my content, to help me film some clips!! I get requests for b/g, b/b/g, and b/g/g clips with various details including (not limited to):

• positioning
• dom/sub dynamics
• ddlg
• bondage (I get these for both me and the woman)
• master/slave

• degrading/***
  
  IMPORTANT: I say no to many requests, and I want any collaborator feel like they can always say no as well.
  
  Ideally, anyone interested would be willing to explore at least a little bit, if they aren’t already experienced. I get tested as often as I can find time for, and I can provide my negative test results upon request!
  
  I’d like to meet anyone interested over a coffee or meal, just to form an actual connection. At the end of the day, this is a professional relationship, but that doesn’t mean I don’t want to be friends! (It also helps so much with on screen chemistry)
  
  Obviously, all profits will be shared 50/50, all content will be 100% shared (feel free to share on your page). The business end of it can be fleshed out more in person.
  
  My OF is @i_am_cancelled
  Free trial link given to any serious inquiries

You’ll find me ready to explore mutual fantasies with care and intention—whether it’s the subtle thrill of restraint, the spark of sensory play, or diving into a shared dynamic. I adore partners who communicate openly and bring their unique flavor to the mix. Afterward, we unwind with some post-play care—sharing laughter, warmth, and maybe a sweet treat to top it all off.

If you’re into exploring chemistry, connection, and a dash of adventure, let’s create our own story.

I'm looking for an online $Daddy, who gets off on having their own little slutty slave, and spoiling me for it.
Give me tasks, chores, requests. Let me be under your control.
I'm such a good little slut, let me prove it to you 🥵

I wanna build a bond and get spoiled so good, it'll make me crave to fuck you in person. I know you'll crave it too 🤤

I know there's men out there with this kink, so if that isn't you, please don't message me. But if I'm everything you have been looking for, send me a message and let's have fun😊

Would like to find an older man to seduce me
60 to 90 turn me into your personal sissy

Also a woman to use a strap on on my virgin ass

I just want to find someone that also has an otherwise boring life who would like to partner up for discreet intimate adventures and explorations of boundaries. A married playmate would be great. If not married then at least discrete and trustworthy.

i’m a daddy findom looking for his pathetic shrimp dick loser sub to control and drain like a human atm. into sph, cbt, humilation, sissification, etc. hard kinks. i offer sessions, drains, tasks, ft/vc, bfe, dickrates, public, exposure, and more. don’t approach if you’re not gonna pay for my services. i don’t show face until a relationship is established. serious inquiries only.

Looking to find a bi bbw unicorn willing to come play with us. We may be open to the right couples.

I want to find someone I can focus on and please endlessly until she is a babbling mess. I have an array of kinks and can cater to many types of needs. I gain pleasure by giving pleasure whether that looks like edging, d/controlled orgasms, D/S, squirting, and even some and *** if desired. Reciprocation is not expected or part of the deal unless you would want to. Come enjoy intimacy and be desired by me! Message me and check these vibes if you're within an hour of STL!

I want to meet women or fem pre op trans for some fun, the kinkier the better, the less limits the better. Had to remove a bunch of this add cause no matter what it tells me to revise and I'm not waiting for slow support to get back to me so you will have to message me and find out what I was actually looking for

Im trying to find plans and people to go out with and have a good night out so lmk

here to find someone femme to top/peg me on the regular. if I catch feels, we’ll see what happens. in an open marriage. wife approves (hi!)

Hey everyone, I'm currently on house arrest and looking to meet local BBC's to celebrate my release in March with a BBC gangbang and hopefully DPP. I know it's far away but it might take a little to find enough BBC for me!

Are you seeking the transformative depth of a Master/slave relationship—a bond built on trust, structure, and unwavering devotion? Are you ready to release your Authority, silencing the noise of uncertainty, and embrace your purpose in service?

We are searching for an individual willing to step beyond the ordinary and commit fully to a consensual dynamic of power exchange. This isn’t about play or pretense; it’s about living authentically in surrender. Your role will be to listen, to act, and to grow under the guidance of a firm yet fair hand, finding freedom in submission and strength in obedience.

You must possess:

A willing heart and an open mind.

The courage to explore limits within clearly defined consensual boundaries.

A capacity to thrive in a structured environment designed to unlock your potential.


This is more than submission—it is an agreement to shape your life under the Authority of another. Expect discipline, introspection, and a transformation that is as rewarding as it is demanding.

If you feel the call to serve and seek the profound satisfaction of complete surrender, reach out. Include a brief introduction explaining why this resonates with you and your vision for such a dynamic.

Authority awaits. Will you step forward?

I would like to find a female dom for myself. I doubt you can tame me sorry sweetie...

It's crazy how many times I see posts from woman who say they wanna meet or they just want someone to walk up to them and take them . Yet when reality hits not a single one to find out here and it's really saddening for me cause that's why I came out here to see what all the fuss was about . Looks like I rather go back to NYC where all the real naughty woman are at and aren't afraid to just say fuck it and have fun .

Hi! Just throwing this out there to hopefully find what I’m looking for! I’d love to try an online dynamic first and see if we really match and then maybe see about meeting in person and see where it goes from there!☺️

I’m looking for someone who is kind, compassionate, and understanding, someone who values honesty and trust in a relationship. A lady who is confident in who she is, but also open-minded and willing to grow and learn with me. I admire someone with a sense of humor who can appreciate the lighter side of life, but also knows when to be serious and supportive

I’m looking for a long term Dom possibly a 24/7 dynamic around the Clinton/Knoxville area. I don’t mind driving 30-45 mins from where I am to find the right person/scenario. I want to be trained and owned, so please msg me here or on snap : thenoxowl

I need a findom😢 we both can be happy asffff

Gotta be have a little bit more in the back 👀