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Genuinely is this KINK app only straight people??? I'm trying to find some girlies to match my freak with me and all I get are men or het couples

Hello, I'm looking for a femme interested in having some fun and exploring one another and our kinks.

Hey, so I'm kind of new to the lifestyle. I've got experience with very light bondage (gagball, zipties, rope once or twice), and wax. As a Switch, I haven't had much time to Sub. I'd love to find a partner that will let me take the backseat on things. It'd give me an opportunity to learn so I can be a better Dom. A female Dom/Switch would be a nice addition because I will want to be in charge here and there. Being open to 3somes would be the cherry on top. My partner is open to it. Pics will be sent in messages.. trying to keep it kinda private.

I'm looking for a mature, honest, and communicative partner. Understanding, support, and shared goals are essential in a relationship for me. I hope to meet someone who will move forward with me and support me in everything I do. If you appreciate positive vibes, enjoy surprises, love delicious food and music, and find joy in relaxing and traveling, we'll likely hit it off. I can't wait for our future adventures together.

Anyone want to ride a face and squirt non stop all night or weekend if you’re really into it?? 😉 message me and find out how much you can drip

In the realm of BDSM, there's a unique blend of pleasure and that many find exhilarating. For me, the thought of a good, over-the-knee spanking is not just about physical sensation; it's about emotional release, connection, and the thrill of surrendering control.



Understanding the Desire

The desire for a spanking can stem from various places-stress relief, a need for discipline, or simply the allure of the act itself. In our fast-paced lives, we often carry burdens that weigh us down. The idea of a spanking can feel like a release valve, a way to let go of pent-up emotions and reconnect with oneself.

The Emotional Connection

BDSM is not just about physical acts; it's deeply emotional. The trust between partners is paramount. When I think about being spanked, I envision a safe space where I can let go of my inhibitions. The intimacy of the act creates a bond that is both exhilarating and comforting. It's a dance of power exchange that can lead to profound emotional satisfaction.

The Physical Sensation

The anticipation of a spanking can be intoxicating. There's a unique thrill that comes with the mix of and excitement. The warmth of a hand against skin can evoke feelings of vulnerability, which can be incredibly liberating. For many, including myself, the physical sensations are intertwined with emotional catharsis, creating a holistic experience that transcends the act itself.

Setting the Scene

For those curious about exploring this desire, communication is key. Discussing boundaries, safe words, and aftercare can enhance the experience. Creating a comfortable environment where both partners feel safe to express their desires is essential. Whether it's a cozy living room or a dedicated play space, the ambiance can set the tone for the entire experience.

Conclusion

In a world that often demands so much from us, the desire for a good spanking over the knee is more than just a kink; it's a longing for connection, release, and exploration of one's limits.



Embracing this desire can lead to deeper understanding and fulfillment, both personally and within a partnership. So, here's to the thrill of surrender, the joy of trust, and the liberating power of a good spanking.
Whether you're a seasoned practitioner or just curious about the world of BDSM, remember that, the journey is as important as the destination. Embrace your desires, communicate openly, and enjoy the ride!

Meet up now for kinky fun. Nasty and horny. Find me a knott

I'm in the UK.

I've never met one of these mythical beasts... Not here in the UK Scotland, or anywhere to be fair. And I've recently signed up to a few of these apps/sites, and again, there's nobody I can find in my country at least.

Do any dominant women exist, who want a sub worshipping her feet?

Or who want to belittle and *** their beta sub through peggin'?

Where are you, oh worship-worthy goddesses 🌹

Not really judgmental or anything when it comes to the woman as long as she’s biologically, a woman 

Hey,

I’m still pretty new to all this BDSM stuff. But keeping it very clear, I’m wanting to find some kinky gay people who are looking for a submissive person. If you want to date properly than bondage is a must have kink. But if you just want to go for a vanilla date then that is also fine!

I prefer an older Dominant man. So anywhere between 22 and 50 is fine. I am always happy to just chat too!

Anyways, if anything at all you find interesting about this or my profile, send me a message and get to know me better!

Greetings, kinky Subs. I am a devoted and respectful dominant lady, earnestly seeking a powerless but respectful men to serve and worship everything I stand for. My deepest desire is to find a slave who will be honored to fulfill my every need and desire, treating mistress with the utmost reverence she deserves.

Looking for Switch to experiment. I've been playing the role of submissive slave femdom and findom but my dominant side has very much come back. Would like an open minded woman age 22 to 52 that is ready to try different things but first let's build trust and be friends

Ok so here goes…, I am 46 and searching for my soulmate.

I like to wear the trousers and control things generally, I like the kind of D/s slave setup but I do not want to be a mistress that just plays with you and fulfills all your desires, i have desires too,

I want to be surprised sometimes and treated like a goddess a princess. Loyalty and honesty are extremely important to me.

I want a man who knows he’s a man, a man who loves and appreciates women and intimacy and love and kink, a man who appreciates women in lace and in fetish clothing or even in comfy clothes, I am NOT into sissies or Crossdressers and I’m not interested in tying men up and doing them with strap ons, or keeping them in chastity. I want a man who tries to please me and gets joy from doing so.

So what am I interested in? A 24/7 TPE relationship where I actually come first, not a situation where it is a guise to only get your secret kinks.

I am a natural leader and control freak, I love men looking like men and acting like men but under my authority, I am kinky but I also want love, deep conversation and to build something so special. I like to take care of and to be taken care of, I suppose my ideal relationship would be what would look like a normal relationship from the outside but i have D/s control, I love the idea of moulding a man to be everything I desire, choosing his clothes, hairstyle and free time.
I love the idea of creating asthetics and atmosphere to explore dynamics on all levels. I want to be able to experiment with my submissive switch side but whilst knowing I can return to my natural tendency of dominance.

I am looking for someone who is more dominant in life but can be submissive to me in a non pathetic way, honest, loyal, fun and intelligent, emotional, empathic and sentimental, has a sense of humour, someone who is patient and kind and calm but can be a little cheeky or play a little bit hard to get or even be a bit dominant sometimes and not just be weak.Yes I guess I’m looking for a submissive Dominant, where the submission and dominance have to be in the right places. I love to chase, i love tease and build up especially mentally.

I have had experiences with men who are liars or destructive and I do not want that in my life, I need someone who values trust and honesty, who can be strong and there for me when I need it. I can be a bit dramatic and need patience, if I get it then I have a lot to offer. Deep conversation is very important to me I am pretty dark minded but I am also very caring and loving and playful and creative. I love being a woman but I am also quite boyish in my interests.

I love gaming, god of war, resident evil, Elden ring, assassins creed, magic the gathering, playing pool, a few beers, occasionally cocktails. I love poker and metal detecting, binge watching tv series and reality tv, I Love eating out and shopping, wandering around markets, escape rooms, BBQ’s jacuzzis, creating themed parties, I love thinking outside of the box, coming up with grand ideas. I love celebrations, like birthdays or summer parties. I love a good massage and I love entrepreneurship. People who are loyal to me I will treat them well and go above and beyond for.

I currently live with 2 D/s slaves/friends. They are platonic relationships. So whoever my soulmate is must be ok with that poly setup and a rather unusual household.

I also have adult sons who I run a property development company with, my goal is to make millions and to be able to create a cool life filled with fun, I want to buy land, a big house, would love to run fetish clubs,and find someone to grow old with when our bodies are too old. Ideally I’m looking for someone involved in the building trade who could come onboard our company.

I am not religious, I edge more towards pagan beliefs, I am very interested in quantum physics and the idea consciousness creates your reality and and I am a bit of a conspiracy theorist.

I love all different types of music, imagine dragons, the weeknd, 80’s, billie eilish, avici, mood and atmospheric

Tv I like Vikings, Dexter, breaking bad, dragons den, apprentice masterchef, survivor, crime, downtown abbey, Spartacus, Clarksons farm, basically decent reality tv and series are my thing, a good movie if it’s well produced.

My negative qualities, I smoke, talk a lot, I’m very possessive. I can sometimes be a bit narcissistic, If you embark on a relationship with me you enter my world and sign up for supporting my life and goals.

My kink interests are :

Roleplay, (I have a big thing for roleplay) Slavery, TPE, collars, D/s control, choosing clothing, monitoring activity, eye restrictions, financial control, being served,, medical, asylum, age play, pet play, kidnap, era play like Victorian schools or slavery or Roman slavery
Flogging, queening, foot worship, tease, cages, latex, straitjackets, there is a lot more I’d do and some more private things but those are my main interests.

If you like my profile, drop me a message and tell me a bit about yourself.

Age
Location
Current living and work situation, skills, any commitments etc.
And more about you in general.

Short messages like hi will be ignored, as will crude or rude messages….yes I know I want a lot, as least I’m honest, if you don’t like my profile you can ignore it.

Hi everyone I'm Genisis my husband is Krew we have been trying to find a club or house meet ups where we might find some group fun . We always wanted to check out the different options when it comes to multiple ppl playing we are very fun to play with plz help lol

I am a lee but willing to switch looking to find tickling friends. I would like to be tied, blindfolded and tickled.

Have explored a lot with an ex, and developed a lot of interests. But never got around to throwing myself in!

I would love to go to a much, or a club, and generally find some like minded people. I have recently moved up this way.

I don't even care if it's just going to a movie or club for the evening, I need to get out of the house and I'm failing to find anyone to get out with. If you don't mind big guys with big hearts that just want to treat someone right, give me a chance! 🙂

Lemme know how I can please

My partner is a gender fluid bottom and I would love to find someone who will dominant us both, or dominant him with me.

Heyyyy! I am a little and also heavily into cnc bdsm and the whole power and dominance realm.

Looking for FWB or a babysitter.
I have a ddlg and Abdl kink. I find myself craving the mommy and daddy aspect of the lifestyle.

Not here for online. Need a regular.

I absolutely love giving oral. Whether it’s going down on a pussy until she comes all over my face, or sucking a cock and letting them fuck my mouth or gag on until he comes. It doesn’t matter. I’m definitely more attracted women, but I fucking love, sucking cock, and balls as well. I need to find a partner or a few that can just enjoy me going down on them. We can do more certainly, but I want to go down on them.

Hello all!

I’m new here looking for a long term relationship with a little/sub that I connect well with! I created this profile many years ago but just am getting back into it and figuring the site out! I am looking for a full time DDLG relationship to develop, as well as ABDL to be included. If you think we might connect well for a relationship or even just as friends or potential play partners please feel free to give me a message of course!

My vanilla interests are pretty basic, I work full time(about to start a second job!) and go to school(looking to finish in December!!!) I enjoy sports and am an active person! I also play video games quite a bit in my free time and listen to music a lot too!

My main kinks are DDLG ABDL spanking power exchange and pet play. I am looking for someone who is into DDLG and ABDL and is open to being diapered a lot! I also am interested in having a little that enjoys using her diapers as well as wearing! It’s not a requirement is something I am definitely into!

I also will add that I am a person who sees myself in the future having a family with my future partner, I haven’t thought too much on it but if you don’t see yourself having a family some point in the future we probably aren’t a fit!

I also will add that I am based in Tennessee and hope to find someone in Tennessee or someone close that would be interested in relocating in the future as this is where I plan to be! I know that will not apply to everyone on here but wanted to be completely transparent there!

A little sub girl trying to find a big mean master

Being a switch is the worst best thing ever. It’s just hard to find others that match your pace and want to explore further rather than one subject. It’d be nice to meet some other switches or just some other interesting people to chat with about kink.