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Hello I’m a 20 year old male, I would love to have my first IRL experience with someone, unfortunately I can’t host but im down to meet up somewhere preferably after we chat a little
Kinks: orgasm control, orgasm denial, latex, breathplay, hypnosis, pegging, cuck holding, feminization, sissification, Chasity, and really anything as long as it doesn’t violate my limits.
Limits: findom, bathroom stuff, blackmail

If you think you can handle an intelligent, sadistic, and hot findomme - approach properly.

I am a newbie to the BDSM lifestyle and interested in exploring. As I believe I am more of a sub than a Dom, I would love to meet Dominant Women for chatting, making friends with, and submitting to them if we match properly. Discretion is a must since I am married (she is not into BDSM though), and FINDOM is absolutely out of question... Anyone interested in chatting?

Looking for bottoms, switches, preys, bunnies and everyone else who would love to be ***d and bow down to our Mistresses.

Any mistress or dominant girl would like to chat and get to know each other! Maybe we can end up in a findom relationship. DM me

I’m on the hunt Ebony Dom female right here in the Milwaukee area. I'm searching for someone who knows how to take charge with confidence and grace. Being a paypig for Ebony females is my kink.

Tired of getting ghosted? People who put minimum effort? If you are looking for a special sub, look no further. Lets explore the ideal D/S dynamic together. However, a D/S dynamic will not last without communication, honesty, and chemistry to name a few. I am looking for someone who is willing to give me their time of their day outside of playtime as i will do likewise. I want to be a choice, not an option. No brats, no players, no kink dispensers, no findom.

Looking for a pathetic sub that knows its place when told what to do

Hello, I am looking for a Domme (either online or lives near Chicago). I love CBT, being d, scratched, spat on, JOI, licked, breeding, lactation, being tall and stronger than me, please respect my limits of no , poop, diapers, or ageplay nor findom. I want someone that is nice and patient but at the same time can be stern and strict when need be. Also bonus if you like Star Wars. I want someone too who won’t ghost me and will clearly communicate with me.

I’m a gentle dom looking for a new pet to play with. I love teasing, edging and watching my sub beg for me, and I’m looking to explore findom with a willing partner. Say hi!

I'm a sub-leaning switch looking for an occasional play partner. I like mild , handcuffs, blindfolds, light bondage, and role-playing. I'm open to a wide variety of scenes and play and exploring new fetishes. I'm very physical and love massages (giving and receiving) and cuddling. Based on my age I'm also well suited to being Daddy or the older guy seduced and used but can equally be your boy toy.

As a sub I'm particularly turned on by JOI, CEI, pussy eating and worship, facesitting, handjobs, edging, milking and shaved pussy.

As a Dom I'm a big caregiver, as well as enjoying roping and restraints, tease and denial.

I'm fun, love to laugh, considerate and honest. I’m a young 72 in mind, body and spirit. Have a beard and mustache, am a non-smoker, DDF, and vaccinated. In a loving but sexless marriage.

My hard limits are smothering, major CBT or whipping, other heavy , cutting, bleeding.

Here's my top bdsmtest.org role results:
83% Caregiver
78% Slave
78% Degradee
48% Rope Bunny
48% Pet
40% Brat
35% Master/Mistress
35% Degrader
35% Little

No findoms, male doms, other pay services.

Just looking for someone that's a Dom to humiliate and degrade me ☺️. Preferably male Dom but anyone can message me. I don't do findom though. Just looking for some fun ☺️

Starting a new job next week and i want to be drained while being RUINED. By multiple women if possible

Hello. I'm looking for a long-term female led bdsm relationship. I'm not looking for a session or a pro or findom. Don't ask for *** or anything like that

Would absolutely love to serve someone tonight! No findom please

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Hey! I’m a pretty standard white guy who’s looking for a connection with a more dominant woman! No findom, some , no , maybe no weapons, but I’d love to get pushed around, used and ***d!

I’m currently trying to find a mistress who’s willing to humiliate me. I’m shy so I might not be up for in-person stuff right away but if I get to know you who knows? (Please no findom)

Looking for women who enjoy having the soles of their feet licked and their toes sucked. We are a couple. She likes to watch and have me lick her feet at the same time. 420 OK! Looking for someone nearby in the Akron area. Would like to make it a regular thing. No *** involved. No findom!

I am a new yet very obedient slave looking for a domme, I am not into findom so any kind of *** play I'm not into. Looking forward to having fun

I am switch looking for an adventurous partner who is willing to explore together both our kinky sides trust and respect and safe words ais a must no bs or findom

Looking for some sadistic dommes to tickle these soles like I owe them . Maybe two dommes tickle torturing these soles for the bank password and then I watch the findomes spend away while begging and laughing

Hi, I am a sub currently living in the general Newtownards area. I am looking for a domme to own me over online sessions and throughout my personal life. I'm not against findomme but I feel my domme should build a good friendship with me so the dynamic remains healthy and less like a transaction.

I have been owned before by dommes online so a lack of experience isn't something to worry about too much, plus I'm pretty open to explore new things.

Dynamics take a while to build trust as is always naturally the case. Therefore please don't ask too much of me right off the bat. Anyone familiar with the online femdom scene knows the dangers and would never want their subs to feel endangered.

Finally I am a switch. I have a strong sub lean but if you wanted to have an alternating dynamic, I would enjoy that too. Although I have been happy with just being an obedient sub 😁. Please feel free to message me. I look forward to our chats

Hi! My life partner in both life and kink recently passed away after 30 years together. As such, I am hoping to expand my horizons and circumstances by reconnecting with the greater kink community. While I am considering exploring a LTR, I am at present in no hurry to commit to anything permanent as I am still adjusting to this.

I am primarily seeking a situation involving a sub or slave female that might lead to a LTR. I can host for mild to wild BDSM play; prefer subsemphasized text with masochistic tendencies and desires. SORRY NO MALES!

Me? I'm a 63 y/o widowed Dom WM with a dry but dark sense of humor; 6'3" 195 HWP, professional, pierced nipples. I'm presently recovering from some health issues but am moving along very well and am very much a fighter; not a quitter! College educated and although mature, very in touch with my inner child. I can transition from NPR to Bob’s Burgers without flinching nor being embarrassed about doing so. Music is a vital part of who I am as is humor. The ability to maintain a sense of humor without arrogance when it comes to BDSM play is, in my eyes, vitally important.

I am not looking for someone squeamish but someone adventurous, who is intrigued by spankings/paddles, restraints and nipple clamps, wax play, blindfolds, latex, leather, tight restraints, watching/ voyeurism, large objects and. . .?

I switch on occasion if the chemistry is right and am open to CBT, pegging, sounding, and pretty much many of the other interests I’ve already outlined. In other words, I can take in what I dish out...

I have a wide variety of gear to add to the total ambience… Anything from mild to wild, as I do have a bit of a sadistic streak…

You? ...are sane and secure, clean and discrete. Enjoy some curves, but sorry- no extreme overweight. Prefer mature but will consider any age or race with a willingness to test your limits and maintain creativity with a certain degree of humor and humility. LOVE tats, piercings, ebony, goth and...

Limits will be respected but tested; also receptive to sexting. Because of scam efforts and ulterior motives of some responses I have received, I actually prefer meeting at a neutral location first in the general Milwaukee area although, yes, I can host...

Desires and Fantasies
My partner and I have explored plenty of things in the past including play dungeons, pet play, role playing etc. I've already explored plenty of fantasies, so just let me know what yours might be...

If you are looking for pay for play or if you’re a “findom” seeking paypigs, move on… I have better things to spend my on including partners that are actually interested in something more LT and stable, and who actually play instead of yanking chains (rhetorically rather than literally)... If you’re looking for someone to send you or gift cards sight unseen, well… while I appreciate you’re thinking that I was born yesterday, I wasn’t…