Ok so here goes…, I am 46 and searching for my soulmate.

I like to wear the trousers and control things generally, I like the kind of D/s slave setup but I do not want to be a mistress that just plays with you and fulfills all your desires, i have desires too,

I want to be surprised sometimes and treated like a goddess a princess. Loyalty and honesty are extremely important to me.

I want a man who knows he’s a man, a man who loves and appreciates women and intimacy and love and kink, a man who appreciates women in lace and in fetish clothing or even in comfy clothes, I am NOT into sissies or Crossdressers and I’m not interested in tying men up and doing them with strap ons, or keeping them in chastity. I want a man who tries to please me and gets joy from doing so.

So what am I interested in? A 24/7 TPE relationship where I actually come first, not a situation where it is a guise to only get your secret kinks.

I am a natural leader and control freak, I love men looking like men and acting like men but under my authority, I am kinky but I also want love, deep conversation and to build something so special. I like to take care of and to be taken care of, I suppose my ideal relationship would be what would look like a normal relationship from the outside but i have D/s control, I love the idea of moulding a man to be everything I desire, choosing his clothes, hairstyle and free time.
I love the idea of creating asthetics and atmosphere to explore dynamics on all levels. I want to be able to experiment with my submissive switch side but whilst knowing I can return to my natural tendency of dominance.

I am looking for someone who is more dominant in life but can be submissive to me in a non pathetic way, honest, loyal, fun and intelligent, emotional, empathic and sentimental, has a sense of humour, someone who is patient and kind and calm but can be a little cheeky or play a little bit hard to get or even be a bit dominant sometimes and not just be weak.Yes I guess I’m looking for a submissive Dominant, where the submission and dominance have to be in the right places. I love to chase, i love tease and build up especially mentally.

I have had experiences with men who are liars or destructive and I do not want that in my life, I need someone who values trust and honesty, who can be strong and there for me when I need it. I can be a bit dramatic and need patience, if I get it then I have a lot to offer. Deep conversation is very important to me I am pretty dark minded but I am also very caring and loving and playful and creative. I love being a woman but I am also quite boyish in my interests.

I love gaming, god of war, resident evil, Elden ring, assassins creed, magic the gathering, playing pool, a few beers, occasionally cocktails. I love poker and metal detecting, binge watching tv series and reality tv, I Love eating out and shopping, wandering around markets, escape rooms, BBQ’s jacuzzis, creating themed parties, I love thinking outside of the box, coming up with grand ideas. I love celebrations, like birthdays or summer parties. I love a good massage and I love entrepreneurship. People who are loyal to me I will treat them well and go above and beyond for.

I currently live with 2 D/s slaves/friends. They are platonic relationships. So whoever my soulmate is must be ok with that poly setup and a rather unusual household.

I also have adult sons who I run a property development company with, my goal is to make millions and to be able to create a cool life filled with fun, I want to buy land, a big house, would love to run fetish clubs,and find someone to grow old with when our bodies are too old. Ideally I’m looking for someone involved in the building trade who could come onboard our company.

I am not religious, I edge more towards pagan beliefs, I am very interested in quantum physics and the idea consciousness creates your reality and and I am a bit of a conspiracy theorist.

I love all different types of music, imagine dragons, the weeknd, 80’s, billie eilish, avici, mood and atmospheric

Tv I like Vikings, Dexter, breaking bad, dragons den, apprentice masterchef, survivor, crime, downtown abbey, Spartacus, Clarksons farm, basically decent reality tv and series are my thing, a good movie if it’s well produced.

My negative qualities, I smoke, talk a lot, I’m very possessive. I can sometimes be a bit narcissistic, If you embark on a relationship with me you enter my world and sign up for supporting my life and goals.

My kink interests are :

Roleplay, (I have a big thing for roleplay) Slavery, TPE, collars, D/s control, choosing clothing, monitoring activity, eye restrictions, financial control, being served,, medical, asylum, age play, pet play, kidnap, era play like Victorian schools or slavery or Roman slavery
Flogging, queening, foot worship, tease, cages, latex, straitjackets, there is a lot more I’d do and some more private things but those are my main interests.

If you like my profile, drop me a message and tell me a bit about yourself.

Age
Location
Current living and work situation, skills, any commitments etc.
And more about you in general.

Short messages like hi will be ignored, as will crude or rude messages….yes I know I want a lot, as least I’m honest, if you don’t like my profile you can ignore it. :)

BDSM/Fetish Family ● 25 to 48 years ● 25km around UK Plymouth

As an amateur gynecologist with a knack for DEZ orgasms. I could help others find these DEZs, as well as the anatomy of where to find them and what to do when you do find DEZs.

DEZ amniotomy
The G-spot is located. 2-3 inches up the front (anterior) vaginal wall. This is where the female squirt is triggered and the easiest DEZ to find. With just some stimulation, the G-spot will swell to have 4 or 5 horizontal lines or ridges that can be felt. With a locked arm and two middle fingers in and up with a minute or two of hard vigorous jerks, squirt can be taught. This is not the first place I would start; squirt is wet but not slippery. Once learned it is almost a cheat code.

I recommend first the clit, and then the A-spot, the A-spot is located past the G-spot on the anterior fornix erogenous zone or AFE zone is located between the front vaginal wall four to six inches in and past the G-spot and around the cervix, Again about four to six inches inside the vagina. 15% of women can have an A-spot orgasm. The A-spot is pink area and looks and feels like cotton candy. I do a windshield wiper move, which produces a lot of natural lubrication. In fact, I changed my Yoni massage to move this stimulation and increased the length of this step in my Yoni massage because 5-10 minutes of A-spot massage might lead to a deep orgasm, but all the following orgasms will be deeper and more fulfilling.

The Cervix is the third deep erogenous zone or DEZ. The cervix can become very pleasurable after the A-spot has started the excitement. Cervix Orgasms are deeply felt and strong, but all DEZ orgasms are better in conjunction with clitoral orgasms. I found either tapping or circling the cervix works best. A vibrator is not needed on either of the A-spot or Cervix. Some ladies do like a vibrator on one or the other or both or neither and this is subject to change. Speaking of change, all DEZ locations can shift around slightly. When a DEZ orgasm happens, the pelvic floor will try to push everything out. Usually, the first orgasm is so intense that my fingers and toys are pushed out. Expect a 10-15 second reset with practice. Subsiquential orgasms, fingers, and toys can fight for prolonged orgasms.

The back side of the cervix or posterior (the rectum can be felt through the wall) area is also called the A-spot, but it only feels good or great after the anterior side of the A-spot and Cervix are stimulated to orgasm. If you can reach all the way around the cervix in a broader and deeper circle and this is well received, go ahead. Otherwise, move back to the G-spot, A-spot, and Cervix but always with the Clitorial stimulation. Many times I religate the sub to hit her clit with my pin vibrator that is very focused. She can blindly hit her clit without looking, so of course, that is better.

Last is the K-spot. It is 2-3 inches in the vagina but on the anal side (posterior). It can be stimulated from either the vagina or anus and, of course, both. I think this area might be equivalent to the male prostate because of the location. I would not spend a lot of time on the K-spot from the vagina side.

Outside around the urethra is the U-spot. I have a pinpoint vibrator, and when I give it to my subs to hit their clit while I'm stimulating the DEZ. Then they are hitting multiple orgasms they all move from the clit to the U-spot.

Squirt and Different Female Cum
The squirt that is seen in porno is often fake, but sometimes a vigorous squirt is real. I have been shot in the face like a water blaster. The G-spot stimulation will trigger a feeling like needing to . Even though you just d. If you relax and feel comfortable, let the orgasm happen with vigorous g-spot stimulation. A squirt will often occur. This fluid is clear, has testosterone and PSA (prostate-specific antigen), and comes out of the urethra. This squirt is not slippery, it feels slippery like water. I prefer the slippery white cum. Post menopause, ladies who had certain types of hysterectomy sometimes can no longer squirt but can still produce the white cum. I think most can with time, trust, and losing that bashfulness that comes with the feeling of .

Pussy liquids other than squirt I have seen. The white cum is my favorite, it comes from the skene's glands, and I like it because this is very slippery. It is more likely to ooze and come out of the two holes or Skens's glans on each side of the urethra. Actually, seeing white cum come out of the Skens's glans is rare. Usually, it just appears on my fingers and is better seen on blue or green gloves or a black dildo. I'm reasonably sure this milky white fluid is similar in compound to a man's cum. The A-spot stimulation helps produce this lubricant. Some subs produce more white cum when something is new and exciting. I have also seen real Grool happen when something new happens and feels good. Grool is a clear liquid that I have witnessed to hang or drip out of the pussy for longer than 12 inches. Grool is the rarest of all pussy lubricants. Fake Grool comes from a gel, I assume Nuru gel. I once flogged a sub for her first time, and she started to drip an inch; as I flogged her, the Grool length increased to three inches, six inches, and more flogging, it hung to 12 plus inches. Eventually, it finally swung over and hit her thigh.

Orgasm Research
Back in 1965, Masters and Johnson's research found multiple orgasmic women. But they also found orgasms that last longer. These long orgasms they named or called Status Orgasmus. Women can all be trained to have multiple orgasms and also longer Status Orgasmus orgasms. In hours of online reading, I found a PhD and MD in Turkey with some papers on the subject. He reported one lady had 134 orgasms in one hour. I have play partners, and some can count and remember her orgasms when I tell her to. She can achieve close to 20 orgasms in 3-4 multiple orgasms back-to-back sessions with short 15-30 second breaks. I see first hand these multiple orgasms morph into extended Status Orgasmus orgasms, and one orgasm extends to 2-3 minutes. Another play partner is much more of a wet squirter in her orgasms, but she gets lost and can't count them. I do not have an assistant, and both hands are busy. Counting orgasms is not the goal, but I do like the research side of things, and counting orgasms is a reliable benchmark to track progress.

Clicker Counter: it is hard for a sub to count orgasms while having pleasure. Not that numbers matter, but numbers do matter when I'm doing Orgasm research. Amazon has 2 for $8. – Sting-ATL
I gave the squirter a mechanical clicker counter to keep up with her tally, with me reminding her to click; she can also hit 20 orgasms in one session and also hit Status Orgasmus and hold it for minutes. I don't see how the Turkish researcher hit 134 orgasms in one hour. It seems a bit cruel and exhausting. With practice, I like hitting 5-6 orgasms and waiting for a reset and 5-6 more, and this is usually ten max per hour and twenty max per day. Here is my diagram of different types of orgasms as I understand things today.

Tools
I use the BDSM version of a colposcope, which is a dildo with a camera and 6 LED lights to explore your DEZ areas here.

Very affordable Colposcope with a vibrator with five vibration modes. The camera is available in 3-megapixel choices; this was the largest, and all three models have six lights. The app store's Bluetooth software is called GoslingQQ. The Colposcope, vibrator, and software were easy to use and work. I think this product is only available on eBay. Shipping was slow. Next time i will do some medical play and use a speculum to open things up more for this. I included a look at the back of my mouth and my uvula. Again, all pink inside. Medical grade digital Colposcopes start at $400, and full stand-mounted optical Colposcopes are $3000 to $5000. This was $89 but start at $59 for cameras with fewer megapixels. – Sting-ATL
To truly appreciate the different DEZ areas in a journey of exploration, you can see and feel the G-spot's ridges. See the A-spot, which looks like cotton candy and just pink everywhere, but you will feel that isolated area. I will show you the beautiful cervix's round mound and the little hole in the middle. With the colposcope, we will go in and out and hit different DEZ orgasms.

12 Colposcope Photos, I have videos of the Colposcope exploring a pretty pink pussy, but I noticed I did not have any photos. I will add another close-up of the G-spot and another close-up picture of the cervix. The rest is primarily pink with a few creases and folds and is hard to differentiate. I think I have a movie with a speculum and the colposcope that might show more. – Sting-ATL

I also have the Loiness Smart Dildo with AI; this can automatically turn on when a temperature of 97F or higher is detected, and it measures the pelvic floor contractions and maps the frequency (I think) of intensity. I can highlight orgasms after a session and can then anonymously send our session video (no voice is recorded) to Lioness for a more significant study with 1000s of users where AI can find trends and different types and detect other types of orgasms.

The details page of the Lioness Smart Vibrator session is attached. You can see pelvic floor stringth, hot spots and vibrator s
d. But add notes as soon as possible while the memory is fresh. Tags come in handy. I've only had it for a short time. 110gF is the highest recorded so far. It can also be used live, which might be a better coaching tool. – Sting-ATL

Here are three sessions with the Lioness Smart Vibrator. This is the summary page. There is a more detailed page that shows pelvic floor strength, hot spots, and vibrator s***d. – Sting-ATL
If you search Amazon for "Pen Vibrator," you will see a dental-looking tool with three tips for clitoral pleasure. These are "high frequency," but not like the Tesla electric wand. This vibrates at 15,000 per minute. I highly recommend these pen vibrators.
I just got the Erosslitor2 and will give you my findings when I have more data.

The "Clit Sucker Clit Licker" can also be seen in some of my videos, I have been told it will suck a woman's soul out.

As you can see, I love to examine vaginas with blue or green latex gloves where the white cum is visible. So, if you are open to a gynecology visit with Dr Sting or maybe my ongoing orgasm research, which I hope is exciting and enjoyable with Professor Sting, so if you live close by, please reach out.

Kinky Date ● 21 to 65 years ● 150km around USA Atlanta

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