Thank You for looking..
i’m not looking for one offs, i don’t meet straight away, i’m looking to get to know You and what You expect from me so i can fully submit to You..
i’m g, i’m submissive, extremely submissive, i have been for over twenty years.. i’m looking to be entirely committed to You, but in return i’m looking for a reciprocal arrangement. i need to feel wanted and loved as a submissive and to entirely trust You. i’m not looking for players, i’m not looking for one offs. i need to have things to look forward too, i need to know when i’ll be seeing and serving You again. i need consistency.
i’m not a swinger, i’m not looking to sleep my way through the site…i obviously enjoy vanilla sex like everyone else but kink is always my preference. it would be nice to meet one special person, or one special couple who appreciate my submissive needs. Ideally i’d like You to be Dominant, not necessarily all of the time but definitely when it counts.
i’m looking to be entirely devoted to You, to establish a connection and an understanding. i’d love to form a relationship which to all intents and purposes looks vanilla to those on the outside although we obviously know differently.
Now the shit stuff… i’ve been hurt, hurt too many times now and i’m not sure i can keep going through that. Yes i’d love to be owned again in the future… but i’m not looking to be owned one day and then disowned the next. i’m looking for someone who appreciates the complexities of ownership and the need for communication, i have emotions like everyone else and they’ve been destroyed in recent years.
i’m genuine, honest and trustworthy. i’m single and have nothing to hide and i’m happy to meet for a social too see if we might be on the same wavelength.
Some important things…
TRUST.. i think trust is THE most important thing. i need to trust someone fully in order to submit fully. It really is that simple. i’m willing to put myself in some compromising situations which totally depend on a bond between us.
HONESTY.. Close to and alongside trust is honesty. Please be honest, i’m open and honest about everything and if You can’t afford me the same courtesy i really do not want to know. i’ve nothing to hide, i really hope You don’t too. Please don’t lie to me, i cannot abide liars.
i will NOT accept a friend invite without chatting first and establishing some friendly banter… asking to be a friend without talking is likely to get You blocked..
i’m verified, i’m a paid up member and i have face photos which i keep private. This is a very private thing to me and certainly not something everyone would understand, i’m not looking to be “outed”.. my submission doesn’t happen overnight, it requires time. i’m unlikely to meet You right now or at the drop of a hat, even less so now. i’m submissive, i’m not stupid or a doormat. Firstly please talk to me like You’d talk to anyone else, everything else comes over time.
i work, like a lot.. but i’m looking to change this and i do have free time in the evenings and at weekends.. i rarely have any weekdays off unfortunately.. hopefully this will change over the next year.. i have my own place, it’s pretty small and the walls are thin, ha.. but i can accommodate.. i can also travel, i drive and i’m happy to come to You, or meet at a hotel.. (i know somewhere that’s ideal)..
i have been submissive for a long time and i’ve been fortunate to experience a lot over the years. i’ve served Dominant Ladies and Dominant Couples… i’ve experienced everything from mild to severe Domination and i enjoy the differences that people bring. i’m well versed in submitting and i’d like to think nothing shocks me anymore. i imagine i am too extreme for most people but please don’t let that put You off.
Please do not hesitate to get in touch whether You are experienced or just interested in kink and bdsm, i am always willing to answer any questions openly and truthfully.
i enjoy all aspects of bdsm, serving, being controlled, doing as i’m told, rules, protocol, , punishment and . i am yet to use my safeword and have never said “no” to anything sane. i do and always will remain polite, respectful, courteous and thankful whilst serving. Although i am happiest serving whilst made to dress like a slut i am also happy to serve whilst naked and . i’m clean and always shaved for meets..
Interests include but are not limited to..
.. i am a bit of a slut, i like being made to endure for Your amusement. i like to be pushed hard, i’d like to be made to wear Your marks… i’ve a particular interest in cbt, i hope You might too..
.. i’m an odd thing, i enjoy being humiliated, i think it’s the lack of control.. i find being made to dress slutty humiliating, and i enjoy how that makes me feel.. i also quite like the cnc and f***d bi bring, it’s hard to explain and not everyone will get it but for me it’s about doing as i’m told or doing things i’m made to..
Closeness.. i love to be touched, stroked, to have my hair played with.. it doesn’t always need to be about the extreme.. The After care is really important too, i would like to feel loved as Your submissive, beat me but hold me afterwards. But After care is not just immediate, after care is also about when we are apart and involves communication and talking about feelings and insecurities that may crop up..
Finally i have a stoma, it saved my life, i’m not ashamed of it or embarrassed by it… but if it bothers You it might be best not to message thanks..
Anyway thank You for reading, if You got this far and might like to chat please put “sub slut” in the subject bar so i know You’ve not nodded off..
Thanks.. hi

BDSM Play Partner18 to 60 years ● 170km around UK Newcastle upon Tyne

I’m going to try and give as much information as I can in this post

Male dom here looking for a sub to work on a relationship that will become TPE. I have been experimenting over the past 3 years learning what I like and don’t like. Trying new kinks and learning about a whole new world that I didn’t know about. I’ve had some very fun times and fun partners that I’ve been able to experiment with and let my dominant side come out.


At the beginning of the year I started a new dynamic with some one online that I had never done before. We started off talking as normal and then she said she wanted to do TPE. This was new for me but I was very interested. For the first couple of weeks we just spent the time getting to know each other and building up a trust. We set up boundaries in the beginning and said we won’t jump right into this. We agreed I’ll slowly get control of things one by one. I ended up getting control over 3 things in her life before we had to call it off. Personal reasons that both us of had no control over.

Now I have got a taste of that kind of relationship,I don’t think I want anything else. I’m looking to try and build this type of relationship/lifestyle again.

What I’m looking for is some one who is committed and really wants the same as me. I know it’s a massive ask for some one to give up all control but with a lot work from both side we could make something amazing. A massive kink and love of mine is being given power. I loved having that control over some one but I also want to be able to help someone. Let me help you become a better version of your self

About me: im 26 years old. Im 5’7 with brown hair and a ginger beard. I have 9 tattoos that are placed all over my body,some of them are big pieces. I have a couple of piercings as well. I would say im a slim toned build.

Sfw side: once comfortable I have a really dark sense of humour. I use to be a big party guy but since getting my own place a couple of years ago I have become a bit of an introvert. I enjoy nights in over nights out, doesn’t mean I don’t go out anymore though. I use to be very big into working out but had a break over the last year. Just getting into boxing training which I’m falling in love with. One thing you should know about me is I don’t ever see kids being in my future. I came to this decision a long time ago and my mind won’t change on that.I want to put my time and effort into other things in my life

NSFW side: I like impact play, breath play, restrains, cnc, fisting. Eating arse, I’m also a pleasure dom,I love giving. I have been getting more into bdsm. I have made my own Czech glory hole that you can be strapped into. I’m wanting to getting into rope classes as well so I can learn to do shibari properly. I’m definitely a bit sadistic so hopefully you are some one who is good with ***

I’m happy with talking online for a bit but I’m not looking for another online relationship . I want to be able to meet up in person and build a proper relationship

It’s ok with me if you have experience or not. This is something we will build together and experiment with so as long as you are open and willing to try then we can make this work. If you have experience in any of it then that’s great

Thanks for reading this long post. Fingers crossed I find the person im looking for

BDSM Play Partner18 to 50 years ● 25km around UK Kettering

Black Male Dominant seeking Submissive Female for eventual Long Term Relationship / living together as a D/S couple.

I have a high sex drive and stamina, and am seeking a genuine female who is similarly highly sexed and kinky. Your colour is irrelevant to me.

One-night-stands and No-strings encounters are great and I'm more than happy to partake, however, I find that the sex and the kink always get much better the longer you get to know and crucially, LEARN about them. Hence the interest in getting into a long-term relationship.

I'm stockily built and weigh in at approx 14st 7lbs.

Although I'm 58, I do not look it - no wrinkles - this is both a blessing and a curse depending on the scenario I happen to be in. Like the saying goes, "Black Don't Crack" LOL.

I do not switch, and I have no interest in doing things with other men apart from sharing a woman who has agreed to CONSENSUAL (CNC) *** of herself - MFM.

I can travel or accommodate.

I do not have a face profile, but happy to send my face pictures to anyone I engage with.

I'm also happy to converse over video mediums such as WhatsApp, Skype, Zoom, etc, etc. This way, YOU can see that I'm real and I can see that YOU are too.

After a couple of virtual meets though, I would prefer to meet in real life, obviously, once the female feels comfortable to do so after our video conversations. It is only then, after we've physically met a few times, that we can really determine if there will be any long term future, or whether for us, it's just short term fun.

I will not participate in endless emails and chats, as the goal is to actually meet, and if I feel that's the route our fledgling relationship is taking, I will terminate it.

Unfortunately, there are too many fantasists, fakers and pros masquerading as real kinksters, and it takes time to weed out other genuine souls like myself.


There is more to being a Dom than just whack-and-go!

Genuine females, please feel free to ask any questions.

BDSM Play Partner18 to 62 years ● 100km around UK Wolverhampton

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