Hi I’ve logged back in after many months. Wasn’t here for very long before so am still new and a little cautious, but still very curious..

Looking to explore my little side. It’s something I’ve been curious about but not something I’ve ever talked about or pursued. I’m very independent in my day to day life and struggle to ask for help but I have a need to relinquish this and be taken care of, in and out of the bedroom without needing to ask (or help me learn to be better as asking) and to be a naughty and sweet submissive in the bedroom.

In my past I have dated younger men but behind closed doors (in my mind and imagination) I get the most aroused and wet when I think about an intelligent, calm, loving, in control daddy giving me love, attention. Making me feel desired and safe and touching my mind and body.

Psychologically, It’s all about feeling safe and desired and adored. I have some body insecurities so to have my daddy desire me and to feel cherished and erotically wanted by him, would make me feel such a special girl for my daddy and would iron out the anxieties or insecurities I have.

In return, when I feel that safety, nurture and attention is genuinely given to me, I will want to give my love and attention and my all to my daddy. If I trust my daddy, I will want to make him so very happy. I am naturally very attentive and I like to please and tease.. I love seeing daddy lose control when I give him my desire (thats the switch in me).

Please note:
Im all about nuance and sensuality and mental play that naturally builds to something more urgent and dirty. I don’t do 0-100, or mimicking hard kinks like you’re a pair of actors reenacting what you learn as being sexy from watching porn. I doubt anyone under 35 will know what this means. I want to FEEL REAL. Real sexy. Real anticipatory. Real naughty. Real dirty. Real wet. With a person that just understands
that sensuality and silence is erotic.
It’s not about headline grabbing black & white kink. (I understand why people chase the fun sensationalist highs of whips, chains, hardcore boundary pushing sex, but I personally find labels the opposite of nuanced and sexy!) Only the most emotionally intelligent men will understand the subtlety in the psychological difference and they’re the ones I would love to hear from. Thank you for reading x

Ps. I really crave a sensual erotic kiss at the moment before anything else!

BDSM/Fetish Family34 to 75 years ● 50km around UK Leeds

I would like explore being a switch in this scenario: dom acts as a caregiver / daddy / mommy for sub / little who is preferably quiet, shy and timid and does everything they're told, but also open to a brat who needs to be put in place. Dom loves, praises, plays with, and looks after sub ensuring all their basic needs are met (getting dressed, food, drink, toilet, comfort, entertainment etc), but also uses sub for sexual satisfaction at any time e.g. as dom, I pick an outfit and dress you, provide meals and drinks and help you consume them, accompany you to the toilet and help, and ensure you are comfortable and entertained e.g. sit you in your favourite spot and put on your favourite show, or play fun games like catch or hide and seek, or just sit and draw and colour. At some point my desire for your pussy scent will become so overwhelming I will have my way with you there and then, no matter what is happening at the time e.g. you're going about your business and I can see you're plump kitty lips bulging through your leggings, or maybe you have a little skirt on and your cute panties are on show, so I kneel in to enjoy your scent and pleasure myself while you stay in position like a good obedient little girl while I praise you for having such a beautiful pussy flower, or perhaps it's toilet time and you are having a wee wee and I can see the cute little panties I picked out for you dangling around your ankles, maybe looking a bit dirty and stinky, so I get down on all fours to enjoy them up close and play with myself while you carry on ing. Depending on your foofoo scent anything could happen from there, if it's disappointing (not strong enough / too strong) I might punish fuck you there and then in your ass / mouth along with some impact play and verbal . If it smells how I like it I will praise and thank you for being so good, and maybe shoot my load wherever I please, on your panties, pussy, face, in your mouth, deep in your ass etc, or if you're lucky I might just treat your lil pussy to some daddy dick, all while calling you daddy's good little girl.

You as dom - If I've been a good boy, I'd love for you to tease me with your smelly panties and suck me. If I've been naughty, face-fuck me with your well scented pussy, or drag me to the bath and give me a ***, or dress me up in your clothes, gag me with your dirty panties, and punish fuck my ass.

I'd love to experiment with your ideas, how would it play out for you?

BDSM Play Partner18 to 99 years ● 50km around UK Cardiff

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