Hi I’ve logged back in after many months. Wasn’t here for very long before so am still new and a little cautious, but still very curious..

Looking to explore my little side. It’s something I’ve been curious about but not something I’ve ever talked about or pursued. I’m very independent in my day to day life and struggle to ask for help but I have a need to relinquish this and be taken care of, in and out of the bedroom without needing to ask (or help me learn to be better as asking) and to be a naughty and sweet submissive in the bedroom.

In my past I have dated younger men but behind closed doors (in my mind and imagination) I get the most aroused and wet when I think about an intelligent, calm, loving, in control daddy giving me love, attention. Making me feel desired and safe and touching my mind and body.

Psychologically, It’s all about feeling safe and desired and adored. I have some body insecurities so to have my daddy desire me and to feel cherished and erotically wanted by him, would make me feel such a special girl for my daddy and would iron out the anxieties or insecurities I have.

In return, when I feel that safety, nurture and attention is genuinely given to me, I will want to give my love and attention and my all to my daddy. If I trust my daddy, I will want to make him so very happy. I am naturally very attentive and I like to please and tease.. I love seeing daddy lose control when I give him my desire (thats the switch in me).

Please note:
Im all about nuance and sensuality and mental play that naturally builds to something more urgent and dirty. I don’t do 0-100, or mimicking hard kinks like you’re a pair of actors reenacting what you learn as being sexy from watching porn. I doubt anyone under 35 will know what this means. I want to FEEL REAL. Real sexy. Real anticipatory. Real naughty. Real dirty. Real wet. With a person that just understands
that sensuality and silence is erotic.
It’s not about headline grabbing black & white kink. (I understand why people chase the fun sensationalist highs of whips, chains, hardcore boundary pushing sex, but I personally find labels the opposite of nuanced and sexy!) Only the most emotionally intelligent men will understand the subtlety in the psychological difference and they’re the ones I would love to hear from. Thank you for reading x

Ps. I really crave a sensual erotic kiss at the moment before anything else!

BDSM/Fetish Family34 to 75 years ● 50km around UK Leeds

Sorry dudes, this one ain't for you. The idea of another mans hands on my lovers gorgeous body is just too much for me to handle. but the idea of a skilled female shibari artist binding my woman and teaching me the art does have a very intimate and special appeal. She too would have me share only limited engagement with another woman, unless it increases her level of pleasure in the moment, of course, and she can resist anything but temptation. I think of her as a tri-sexual, as in she will try anything sexual...This is new to us both so we will just go with the flow and have some fun with it...We are a handsome and athletic couple in a deep and loving relationship looking to experience some intense and exciting scenarios that we might bank, and draw down on later alone. It really is all about her and that is so fine with me because I just love the way she comes. We are looking for a playfully creative and imaginative woman to be the perfect special ingredient to throw into our magical mix that will take us all to hitherto unknown heights of orgasmic bliss and release...I am so ready and and have so many fantasies imagined to be manifest into this reality. I look forward to directing this action as either a participant, voyeur or both. Some skill with a camera for photos and films would be great, she has a wild exhibitionist streak that I would have you capture in our lovemaking. She is a dominatrix by nature and in dress, but will submit to my will, though it is an incredible turn on to witness her Dom rising and see her standing in all her feminine beauty and power, thankfully I have restraints to use, sometimes...It is a serious (ha ha!), and yet playful power struggle that lets us discover and push each others boundaries and enter into that addictive, intoxicating, timeless, and otherworldly space where... oh my! ...A woman who can join us and knows how to accept the lash obediently and with gratitude would be a great example, as I have my lover in slave training. With love, truth and respect we can't go wrong, if you can't come with that, don't come at all. We are fiercely protective of our love and of each other, and will be protective of you too, our soon to be most intimate...'love slave' (or something as yet undefined).

Kinky Date18 to 55 years Ireland Dublin 2

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